EP18 Teddy Tarantino | How to Safely Enter the Adult Industry… Not Myths, Just Facts

[01:00:00:05 - 01:00:11:06] Hey everyone and welcome back to the Lexus star show. I'm really excited about today's episode. I've got my friend and returning guest, Mr. Teddy Tarantino on the mic with me today.

[01:00:11:06 - 01:00:23:19] He's not just joining me. He's going to be co-hosting and today we are going to be talking about a topic that lots of people are curious about. And that is how to get started in the adult industry,

[01:00:23:19 - 01:00:27:07] whether you're just thinking about it or you plan on doing

[01:00:27:07 - 01:00:53:04] a full time career with this, or just curious about the steps that you got to take to continue with this. We're going to give you the real deal. We're going to, you know, no gatekeeping. We're going to give you guys the ins and outs. So from boundaries, branding, booking, burnout, this is the honest truth. And we're going to see if you have what it takes to join the adult world. Let's get into it.

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[01:01:09:06 - 01:01:46:21] Teddy. Thank you for being here today. I'm sorry for doing it so early. That's okay. That's like an early bird. I am an early bird, but it depends. It depends. Now that I have like little people, it's a different situation. You know, I like to be an early bird and do my own things, not have to take care of other people, but we're all good. We'll, we'll, we'll do our stuff today and then we'll have the rest of the day to do other things. So let's get right into it. Why get into adult content?

[01:01:48:02 - 01:02:00:19] You shouldn't. You shouldn't. It's bad for the world. It's toxic and it's just a demonic thing. You think? No. Okay. Cause I'm like, whoa, whoa, this is not what I was expecting.

[01:02:03:08 - 01:02:29:22] Really it's not for everybody and it's, it's more not for people than, than it is for people. And I don't know. I kind of feel like if, if you are drawn to doing adult work, like it'll kind of happen naturally, but I feel like there's a lot of people that get into it with like the wrong intentions and they're not like mentally well, you know, doing any type of entertainment

[01:02:30:23 - 01:03:25:15] is always going to be a struggle because there's so much ego involved. There's so much spotlight. There's so much criticism, you know, so like if your self esteem isn't in order, if your spiritual life isn't in order, if you have conflicting shame, you know, there's a lot of shame that goes on with it. Um, you know, families opinions, there's a lot of different things that those things aren't in order. There's going to be a lot of struggle if you're not, you know, clear on like what type of substances you use, you know, if you drink a little too much doing adult entertainment, you might drink a little more to relax or something like that. Now that's going to create this whole negative thing. I feel like when people think about going into this type of career, like their motivations are mostly, you know, um, freedom, money. And then there's a lot of people that say it's to like express themselves.

[01:03:27:19 - 01:04:13:12] To be honest, I literally did it for the money. Like I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna. Yeah, I'm not. For the money? Yeah. That was not the art. It wasn't the art. And I feel like when people say that they do it for the art, you think it's a cop out? I think it's just like, I don't know, but I just, I don't, I don't think it's, it's, it's real because you can express yourself sexually without posting it on the internet. Right. You can just do it at home. Yeah. But you can make money without posting on the internet. Exactly. So everybody does it for the money, right? You know, because you could make money without doing only fans or whatever. No, but if they're going into it, their reasoning for it, in my opinion, is to make money. Why did you start?

[01:04:15:17 - 01:04:22:20] Um, so I think is, I think a male getting into the industry is very different than a female getting into the industry. Yeah. One thousand percent. I agree.

[01:04:24:15 - 01:04:48:20] I think the most people that are getting into the industry, I was talking to my friend about this the other day with someone. So one, if you're a male and you're getting into the industry, most men, their motive is to sleep with this many girls. I agree. Sleep with this high caliber of women. That is their motive. I see that as getting into Muay Thai and kickboxing to hurt people.

[01:04:49:23 - 01:05:23:05] You're not trying to learn. You just end like that happens at gyms all the time. Someone comes into a jujitsu gym or a boxing gym and they're just trying to hurt people. They're not really trying to become one of the become part of the culture. They're just there and they like have anger issues or something like that. So there are men that get in the industry and their motive is to sleep with these women and on camera stuff is very different than off camera stuff. There's a lot of compliance. There's a lot of technique and form and there's a lot of cultural ethics in the adult industry

[01:05:24:07 - 01:05:39:07] that if you're not trying to learn those things, you're going to get canceled. You're going to push someone's boundaries. Some men get off on pushing people's boundaries, which is fine in your personal life if you and your partner are discussing things like that, even pushing each other's boundaries.

[01:05:40:08 - 01:06:33:21] But when you're doing this with random strangers that are like your coworkers, that's where it gets toxic. Yeah, but that's another subject we'll talk about is boundaries. And then women, a lot of women, their sole focus is to make money. Now there's, I could also say, well, you can make a lot of money doing a lot of other things. You could be a bottle girl. You could do other things that don't necessarily have you being naked. Some girls do only fans and don't do any type of nudity. So we know you could make a lot more money if you did other things, you know what I mean? Yeah, for sure. So you draw the line here and someone else draws a line here and someone else draws a line here, but you know, doing any type of work that is considered modeling to me is that we swim in the same water.

[01:06:35:02 - 01:07:10:04] So if you're getting hired to go do a car show and look pretty, you're doing, you know, entertainment that is based on your looks. Yes. It's just not people aren't buying it, you know, and then if you're doing topless stuff and then, you know, it keeps going. So you know, there are things that you know you could make more money doing, but you're not comfortable with doing it. And some women for all the money in the world still wouldn't do it. You know, I was one of those women before, but then I don't know, I guess I was just like, not about expressing myself, but really to me from the get go, it was like, okay, you know what?

[01:07:11:12 - 01:08:26:17] I'm going to make money. It's going to be easy money, but that's the thing. It's not easy, right? You think it's easy, but then it's a lot of work. It's a lot of commitment. It's posting, it's filming, it's this and that. But then once I got, because I didn't make money for two, three years, I didn't even know how it worked. I didn't even know like how OnlyFans was working. So it was, it was for the money. And then I was about to give up because I was like, okay, well, it's been two years that I'm doing this and I'm not making any money. And then once I spoke to other people, once I got more insights, I was like, okay, now I can start. And whichever reason people are going into this, it doesn't matter. I think as long as you're true to yourself and you have the right intentions, it's just be, um, what's the word I'm looking for? Intentful? What's authentic? Not authentic. What authentic? So be authentic and be true to yourself and say, you know what? If I'm doing this for the money, then this is what I'm doing it for. Just like, don't, no BS, right? The problem was that the problem with that is that when you're doing something that you're not comfortable with in exchange for making the money, what happens when you're doing things that you're not comfortable with and you're not making the money?

[01:08:27:18 - 01:08:46:08] Very true. So that's why when a girl goes into the industry for the money, when the money doesn't come and now you've done all these things that you're shameful about, what do you do with that? And there are a lot of girls out there who have done that. There's a lot of girls who said, oh, I'm going to go and do adult content and do, you know, whatever.

[01:08:47:10 - 01:08:56:06] And they weren't really okay with it and the money didn't come. And now they're trying to backtrack and have a normal life. And they're very shameful about this.

[01:08:57:11 - 01:10:05:10] And that's why like the money is cool, but you got to understand that if the money doesn't come, you have to be okay with the decisions you made. One thousand percent. And I think for myself, like when I started and I wasn't seeing any money, I did have that thought. And I was like, okay, well, I'm not making any money and I'm literally putting myself out there for everybody to see. But then the money did come. And then I was like, okay, now I feel a bit better about it. Better doing it. Now it's like my full time job. So I'm okay with it. But I feel like no matter what anybody says at the end of the day, you're going to have a little, you know, a little flame inside telling you that, like, okay, everyone can see everything. And there is days where you're okay with it. And then there's days where you aren't for myself. But like now I feel like I've just passed that. Like I'm just like, okay, this is what I do. Yeah. So I've never had that. You never, but you're a guy. Okay. Okay. So it's like, yeah, I'm a guy. So it's like, whatever. A lot of guys don't want to do that. Yeah. I have so many guy friends who are perverts.

[01:10:06:16 - 01:10:08:16] And I was like, why don't you do only for the town?

[01:10:10:02 - 01:10:27:01] I have guys who these people are insanely obsessed with sex. Okay. And they would never post a video of them naked. Okay. Because they don't want to post themselves. Well, they don't, most people that is not, even for all the money. Yeah. You know? Yeah.

[01:10:28:22 - 01:11:22:06] And I feel that that's not something that they will ever be comfortable with. So bottom line, I've never had that. Like I've always been, I don't know, I feel like I've been humiliated so much in like my past life that to me, I'm like, Oh, I mean, I mean, I've always been like, and I've never been someone who's like overly like, like if I meet a stranger, what I do for work is the last thing I'm talking about. 1000%. And that's, I've always been like that. You know, people, me, when people like you meet somebody and they're like, so what do you do? And it's like, how are you? I'm good. You know, anything else you want to know about me? But I hate when people, even when I wasn't doing this, it's like people judge you right away. Hey, how are you? And nice to meet you. Okay. What do you do for work? And right there, they're already judging you like, Oh, you're a doctor. Oh wow. Okay. So you make money. You're smart. You're this. Oh, you do this. Oh, well, okay. You know, you're not, you're not up to my standards or whatever.

[01:11:23:11 - 01:11:23:16] Okay.

[01:11:24:17 - 01:12:33:18] Um, they, whoever decides to do this needs to be, um, like you said, authentic to themselves. If they don't feel like doing it, if they have doubts, then they probably shouldn't start. Right. Yeah. So for me, like it's very different for women and it's different for, for men and they have to both come to some type of accept level of acceptance of what could happen. So you have to be okay with worst case scenario. Yeah. And then you do a whole bunch of videos and you don't make any money and you want to leave and people get in the industry all the time. No, this one. You know how many girls I've done interviews with and talked to and they've been like, yeah, this is going to be my whole career. I'm I'm going to be committed. And then three months later, like, yeah, I don't want to do this anymore. Yeah. So a lot of times you don't know if this is for you until you get into it. Exactly. Yeah. And then a lot of girls, when they don't see the money within the first six months, they're like, this is pointless. But it takes time. It takes time to make money. Just like anything, you can just start a business and overnight you're going to make sales and you're going to make money. Well, some girls strike gold on the first hit. Didn't you post Lil Tay?

[01:12:35:00 - 01:13:10:02] What the fuck? The girl just turned 18. Yeah, but she's built a following. But that's the thing. So long. So it's like, you know, if the Olsen twins came out with OnlyFans, you know, the day they turned 18, they would also blow up. So if you had a huge following before and you come out and you do this, that's fine. And that's like a whole other thing. I think it's so toxic because it's like you have like this grooming going on where you have people who have watched you who have been having those thoughts when you were underage. And those are probably the people that are buying your content now. So there's definitely something.

[01:13:11:22 - 01:13:14:13] Messed up about it. Messed up about that. You know what I mean? I totally agree.

[01:13:15:22 - 01:14:46:19] I saw some of the other day that I posted the trend where girls are putting a Down syndrome filter on them is so insane. Is that a filter? Was that a filter? Would you post it? That's not real. They don't have Down syndrome. I don't know. Because there is this one girl who does have Down syndrome and she's like thick. No. Yeah. Most of those girls are doing a filter that makes them look like they have Down syndrome. No way. Which is insane because it's like you're sexualizing like a disability. And it's like I'm all for like crazy and like yeah but that's like whatever to me. And what I don't get is that you're already so popular like these girls already had 500,000 followers a million followers. So you don't have to stoop down to that level. And then even if you're new I wouldn't stoop down to that level. But the fact that you were doing that and you're already so and to me it's just like there are so many other things that you can do other than a fake down. Like to me it's just like. Who would create that freaking filter anyways? Like it doesn't it doesn't make sense either. Right. I mean I mean people are going to create nonsense. I don't know. So another topic that's really important is setting boundaries early on. And this I think is setting boundaries with yourself. Right. Man I know you guys have less boundaries to set. Like if you know. Okay. So many guys have boundaries. Really? Well okay. Yeah. If you're a straight man you probably don't want to do gay shit. Right. So that's a boundary. What other boundaries would you do you have as a man in the industry?

[01:14:48:03 - 01:15:01:23] I would say that I'm very comfortable with doing like a lot of things but I don't like doing anything like submissive. Okay. Like you being submissive or the girl being submissive? I don't like to be submissive. Okay. I have to be like maybe like super comfortable for me to be like a whatever.

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[01:15:24:17 - 01:15:32:19] there are plenty of guys out there that you know they don't like their nipples touched. Okay. They don't want to be bit. I hate getting bit. Okay.

[01:15:33:21 - 01:15:35:04] And the girl bites me hard.

[01:15:36:15 - 01:16:00:13] Anger releases. Really? There's nothing sexual about that. Yeah. I'm like oh you want. But a little nibble on the ear is fine. Yeah. I had a girl bite my lip and I was like hey don't do that. Yeah. And she did it again. And I was like yo I'm serious don't do that. And she did it again and I kicked her out of my house. Oh shit. Okay I didn't think of it like that. I hate biting. I hate when a girl does like hard like back scratches.

[01:16:02:01 - 01:16:39:05] But you don't you don't talk about this before you shoot with them? I'm talking like a mixture of my personal life. Okay okay. You know so my personal life usually in filming the girl is like hey like you take control or do whatever you want to do you know. So I don't know like usually like I'm pretty popular the girl kind of lets me do whatever I'm okay with and then we'll talk about boundaries and like that's all kind of talked about and I don't ever do anything. If I shoot with someone one two three four times I'm doing pretty vanilla stuff. I had to get really comfortable with someone to do something that's even a little more rough. Okay.

[01:16:40:05 - 01:18:08:15] But I don't want I don't want to be slapped. Okay. Some girls will try to slap you. Choking. Okay so I guess yeah. I don't want to get choked. Because that's the missive shit. Yeah. There are times where it's happened and I was like that was kind of hot. But if you ever tell anybody that this happened. You know so there's times where it's happened. Okay. And I was like but we don't have proof of it. It's not on a video. It's not. I edited out but like you know it's happened like a couple times where all the that kind of turned me on in like a weird sense. Obviously well not obviously but I did like slap them back. Yeah. Yeah. Because it's like oh if you're slapping me I'm definitely gonna slap you back. But you know there are things that some guys really don't like and I'm I'm pretty oh but I know a guy who he told me he does he I hate saying this because I like people know you. But he was telling me like dude I hate sloppy top like really girl spits all over me. He said it's so gross. I was like oh wait I think I've heard you maybe say it on your story this and I was like who's this friend. Gross. I was like he was like dude it's gross and I was like wow that's interesting. I never heard of guys but like guys have a lot of things but I wouldn't think that would be like a boundary like you're not gonna tell a girl like hey don't spit on my thing so much right. Why not. Yeah. If it grosses them out would you. Oh yeah. You don't want to get a lot of girls don't want to get spit down their throat. Yes. Because that's how everyone gets sick. Yeah. So a lot of girls like I don't want to get sick. You know.

[01:18:10:08 - 01:18:31:08] Same thing with a guy a guy might not want a girl to spit down. You know what I didn't I didn't even think about it. I was like guys whatever. Yeah I'm like whatever you guys were completely like two different creatures in this line of work but it makes sense. I mean you know I'm like a couple's account right. So my boundary is shoot with one one person.

[01:18:32:10 - 01:18:34:12] The hubby obviously shout out to him.

[01:18:35:16 - 01:19:45:04] And yeah I think you have to be clear on your intentions going into this and then if you are doing this with somebody you guys need to be clear on the boundaries that you're going to do right because there are people who are a couple but they still shoot with other people and that's totally fine but you know okay maybe I don't want you shooting with like this specific person or whatnot. So a lot of times it's like kissing a lot of times. Yeah we're like dude if you kiss that girl I will stab you. You know you know what it's funny because back in like high school there was this one guy who told me he's like I rather my girlfriend sleep with somebody than make out with somebody and I was like no but then I still don't agree with it but I do understand because kissing is more intimate it's more like you know doing it is just doing it. I can count on my hands how many times I've kissed someone in a video. Really on the lips. Oh really. This one I'm not afraid of this one I was shooting with this girl and she was trying to kiss me and she was new and I was like she was so attractive I was so turned on by her yeah but she was trying to kiss me and I was and she was like in the middle of filming she was like you're not gonna kiss me. I was like I don't kiss you.

[01:19:46:10 - 01:20:01:19] She was like what? I was like I really don't kiss that many people. You popped up on my home screen yesterday because I have like this thing with always checking my ranking and checking how much money I made and you popped up you kissed Lexa.

[01:20:03:03 - 01:20:07:20] I did. You did. That was the one that just popped up. There was something.

[01:20:10:19 - 01:25:52:20] So when I filmed with her I remember like I always thought she was a I told her this like when I first met her I haven't repeated it so I was like I've been watching you for a long time you know I was so nervous when I first met her and I remember like the guy who was like filming he was like okay so when you get in the car because we did like a scene in my Rolls Royce okay so when she gets in the Rolls Royce um all right take like your pants down and then you can like start eating her butt okay and I remember looking at him like all right bro you're like she's hot I'm not gonna just eat her butt you know and as soon as her pants came off that's exactly what I did I was just gonna control it. I didn't see that part. I know but I remember being like that was like something I was like like in the heat of the moment like sometimes in the moment you know people will do things that are just nastier than something they would do when they're not in the moment you know for sure I mean it does happen like I mean in videos I don't I mean it may be like one or two videos where he's eating my butt but sometimes like when we because he doesn't drink anymore but when we would drink then it would get really nasty you know it was a lot of no no no not me to him obviously not he would no but I'm just saying it's more like it's more raunchy and nasty but now we're just like little prudes right yeah god knows what goes on yeah yeah well it's all on video so talking about boundaries so I think um I think a lot of people who get into the industry say yes to everything so they're just like yeah yeah I'll do that I'll do that because they're scared of being like no I don't do that or I'm not gonna get picked to do that whatever and a lot of girls don't do their research before they show up to the shoot so like there was a forget her name Lana Rhodes she has like this infamous thing where she went to go do a scene for a company called facial abuse okay well okay okay so if you've been around forever okay they do hardcore face stuff right they also are prone to trying to get the girl to throw up into a bowl stop and they get the girl to drink it they pour it on their head they pee in the bowl they pour the pee on her they pee in their mouth like they do discuss like facial abuse is hardcore she went on a podcast saying that what she did there was totally unconsentral and she didn't agree to do any of this basically they made her like they they gagged her until she could throw up she threw up a little bit and they peed on her oh my god this might sound horrible this is what you're signing up for their girls were into this you know it also depends right because if you're going and you're doing pro shoots but when you go to pro shoots they have a boundary list right so not everyone has like that's kind of a newer thing really okay like i'm sure years ago there wasn't like a super clear detailed yeah detailed list it was kind of like hey this is the scene and we're gonna explain and then as the scene goes on we're gonna ask you so they asked her hey are you okay with this and she said yeah but it was also in the middle of a scene she probably felt and i'm not saying that they're totally innocent either yeah but she agreed to do some water sports you know yeah and then she drank it and she was saying that that was like the most humiliating unconsensual basically against her will stuff that she's ever done and she's traumatized from it wow but she didn't do her research she could have said no but at the time like if you know as you get older you get better at saying no and you get better at saying hey i'm not comfortable with this but even like it happens to me with basic stuff the other day i picked up my card to get the ac fixed and the ac was and i took a ride with the guy in the car and the whole ride i'm like it's not really that cold yeah and i didn't say anything i took the car home so in my mind i was like why didn't i just say hey i thought it would be colder yeah but i was just like but that's very true because you know sometimes yeah something i don't want to speak up or say something and then i was like i'll just drive and see how it is and then on the way home i'm like i should have said i should have left the car it always happens to me especially like in an argument where i'm like god damn it i should have said this or or with anything really but when it comes to boundaries especially in this uh line of work i think i think people who want to get into it need to be like look this is what i can do this is not like i this is something i won't do and be very firm with their boundaries and not just get caught up in the moment and just say yes because oh well maybe this is going to make me more famous maybe this is going to make me more money and a lot of times they're just signing up they're just shooting when you're new you're shooting six seven days a week everyone wants to shoot you so you're not necessarily looking at what every scene is you'll just figure it out when you get there and then before you know it you have a bunch of scenes where you're thinking like man was that consensual that i really agree to do that was that a little too was that push him i don't really know and then some girls are comfortable with that some girls their wishy washy with their boundaries as part of their kink okay so some women they're like wow i never thought i'd be okay with that but that turned me on in the heat of the moment i was i was fine with that or whatever you know and um i know a girl who is so into drinking urine oh wow okay that it was like she was like she has this video that went viral she was like at a football game and her friend had to pee and he just like peed in a whole cup and she drank the whole cup oh my god it wasn't clear he wasn't hydrated oh and she just has a fetish for that a fetish for drinking that you know interesting and i just couldn't believe it i was like

[01:25:54:14 - 01:26:48:08] that's that's something i mean i don't judge anybody for their fetishes um to each their own but that's something and all i'm saying is that what what might be traumatizing to one person is somebody's like fantasy you know so it's like and even with like bdsm stuff and like you know girls have a lot of like rape fantasies and you know that's like one of the top five fantasies of women you know really yeah for sure so it's like a lot of women have that fantasy now it's very different when it's a fantasy versus real life you know i like watching scary movies yeah i wouldn't necessarily want to be in a house with a killer you know what i mean so a lot of times the it's it's very clear that it's a fantasy yeah that this is only cool because i know it's not real if it was real it would not turn me on at all so you know there there's also that thing and

[01:26:50:06 - 01:27:20:19] i don't know i think that before you get into the industry you should write down a piece of paper what you're okay to do because when you write it on the on paper any whether it's a goal whether it's whatever it's very different than you having it in your mind so you should definitely have your boundaries on paper things that you're comfortable doing things that you're going to wait until later to do you should talk to your agent about it but it's really your response your boundaries are only your responsibility it's not your agent's responsibility yeah 1000% because like you said nice if your agent remembers your boundaries yeah she doesn't do that is up to you

[01:27:21:22 - 01:29:37:21] never get caught up in the moment and just say yes because you want to say yes this is mostly for people who are doing shoots right but then there's like the other girls who are just doing uh o f content o f content's worse what do you mean pushing boundaries wise but it depends it depends it depends how you're shooting right if you're a girl doing solo shit then you are your own boundary right but if you are actively looking to shoot with people and whatnot then it you know you reach out through dms you guys talk then you can say look um you need to have an idea you also can't you need to have a plan you can't just say okay come over we're shooting right you know be vocal about uh what the scene is going to be like like you come here and i'm like hey we're going to talk about this today right i'm not just putting you on the chair and saying okay teddy like this is it right so i think you got to be um uh you got to be prepared you got to be vocal don't hold things back like a lot of times people do so just be vocal say what you want and then you know if it if you see that this person is not respecting that then it's like okay well peace out yeah and then it's like uh in the industry your reputation is everything so it's like we just talked about like some people where like if we would have just asked around a little bit we would have got a lot of information about them but um man your reputation is everything in the industry and um like getting back to like getting into the industry i always tell people like they should see a sexologist like or at least a therapist to try to really find out what your motives are what why you're really doing this make sure that you don't have you're not trying to have any old trauma that comes up and it's sad because a lot of people in the industry a lot of people in every everyone has some type of trauma but i believe that people that are hypersexual as young adults or or you know even as kids those people get into the adult world because they've been doing it so long and that's kind of something that they get good at because they've been doing it for so long and then there's a lot of things that they don't deal with that gets unresolved and then boundaries get pushed and now they have a bad taste of the industry and then even like on drugs so like i don't do i'm obviously cleans i don't do anything

[01:29:39:11 - 01:29:57:15] there's a whole every industry has a group of people who do drugs in it okay the automotive industry the retail business you know right have you ever worked at a restaurant oh yeah if you go to a restaurant there's three people that are on drugs yeah yeah yeah i i my dad has a restaurant i've been around those people and let me tell you there

[01:29:57:15 - 01:50:03:20] i was like 14 15 and my dad's the owner of the restaurant and these people are hitting on me and telling me the nastiest things at 14 years old it's crazy it's crazy and i'm the owner's boss wow and and i wouldn't say anything because i was like oh my god my dad's not gonna believe me right but anyways i can tell you like off off mike the the the crazy things so when it comes to restaurants i know most of them are alcoholics most of them are alcoholics in the restaurant business for sure so it's like so a lot of people try to like uh stigmatize the adult industry it's every industry has some type of boundary pushing drug addicts you know or alcoholics so in the adult industry you know when you're going to like these after parties or whatever i've heard stories of things happening and then a lot of people say no she was just drunk or she was just high or whatever so being totally sober is definitely a great thing when you're doing any type of or any type of industry where people are doing things that something unconsensual might happen and for me i don't deal with that because i'm so vocal about being not on drugs that people like people like drink around me like oh my god is this okay you know like people are are respectful about whatever and i don't really go out like that yeah but i have heard of things happening like that you know but i think that even like you said in any in any business in any uh like the adult industry in any industry there's always going to be like when a bunch of people get together there's always going to be something that could happen so i mean staying alert is definitely it's a population statistic yeah yeah you get a hundred people together five of those are going to be on drugs carlos going to be alcoholics you get a thousand people you know yeah it's just how communities are ran and um you know you want to talk about like abuse like dude there's crazy things that go on in the police that goes on in nursing that goes on in old people homes yeah yeah yeah nursing care when you open you open up instagram and like it's always these like teachers right like no it's it's uh it's crazy i yeah i know what you mean it doesn't matter if you're in the adult industry or not like crazy shit could happen in any industry that you are in so it's just be careful stay alert right absolutely yeah um choosing your platform and content type so there are many many platforms i think that there's actually too many um so when it comes to starting out i obviously think that you should go on the most popular one which in this case would be only fans but then you know the thing is that people start in only fans thinking that people are just going to come in but that's not how it works because you need to promote yourself right so that's when uh instagram x uh reddit become important because nobody's just going to come on your only fans because oh your little picture you know you look pretty so let me just hop on and see what's going on i don't know what happened i put a story post exactly no so you gotta really promote yourself um on the public social media so again instagram and twitter or x i would say uh are the best ones you're a pro at that because you're like uh you're like um posting 50 times a day that's just me in a manic state my friend the other day texted me and was like yo bro like i'm really trying to get more popular on tiktok one of it i don't even use tiktok i should because if i had enough if i had the views that i have on instagram on tiktok i'd be making 10 grand a month yeah because tiktok pays you to be a creator tiktok pays people 800 bucks per million views really okay so i really should just be focusing on tiktok i don't know what i'm doing on instagram but i didn't mention tiktok but tiktok is also a good platform but the thing when it comes to uh adult content and like being in the adult world is that it's so easy to get banned okay so i had a tiktok that was going super well oh there's also snapchat so we have um instagram x tiktok snapchat those are four ways that you can promote yourself um tiktok i had reached because you need to reach like 5k followers before you can start getting monetized being a creator and then i was like okay you know what i gotta i gotta push because i'm not i like to make my videos post them make my videos make my content post it as social as i am i don't like you know just okay you know what i mean um so on tiktok what i was doing is i was doing voiceovers right i was doing that then i was posting it on my instagram story and whatnot and like once i'm like finally starting to grow boom i lost it you know and it's like you don't know why did i put my did i put my website link did i and i wasn't really showing anything so it's just like you do all this effort and then it goes to shit so you know you guys have to be prepared for that if you want to get into this is that you never know when like your socials are just gonna get lost in thin air yeah and there's also like an art to it so it's like there are a lot of people out there who and i just saw this girl's instagram account her bio was instagram hates me and i'm just like no you just post things that aren't supposed to be on instagram so there's like an art to it because when i first started i would post insane things that i was like oh this is gonna go viral i was just so clueless yeah two guidelines and how serious they were and i didn't understand that every time you lose your account you gotta pay two three four five grand to get it back so once i started to pay five grand four grand three grand i was like i need to learn what i'm doing wrong and then i you know it's just maturity so it's like yeah this is a really sexy picture is this worth your account losing or maybe post it from a burner account and you know whatever if you really want to post or don't even post it at all but sometimes you just have to be like hey i would love to post that but i just don't want to take that chance and then there's accounts that post insane things right and you're like how do they get away with that and honestly it's not my job to try to figure that out because i'm just like i'm just gonna play it safe but i use my social media to talk about things that aren't so hyper sexual you know and um me as a god i don't do anything that's like bisexual so i'm not trying to lord because as a male creator it's really hard to get straight male uh fans you know so for me you know my only fans it does like okay but it's not like my bread and butter my bread and butter is like the tube sites but i don't know there's a lot of girls who have figured out instagram where they are killing it they don't post anything too risky they're doing a lot of gym pictures yeah and they're doing like you know spandex so they're showing their butt but they're like in some type of you know fully clothed outfit and um their account might get banned once a year but it's nothing crazy tiktok is insane tiktok i posted a video where i said a word that was like a little inappropriate and my whole account got banned from saying that and i was like wow that's crazy that's so ridiculous but i mean it is like something that we have to deal with so that's something to be prepared for then you mentioned tube sites so that's another great way to market yourself and promote yourself is tube sites and again there are many so if you are just starting my opinion is stay on the most popular one because i'm literally everywhere and then sometimes i'm like oh man like it's just too much you know it's like post here post here and then you're like but i'm not making that much on this one like do i even bother posting but then you're just like yes like i've done i've done all this i'm gonna do it so make sure that you are giving free content to people so that they like what they see and then they're gonna say you know what well i really like this content creator i'm gonna come onto her paid sites and get stuff that i will not see so everyone has their own path because i know so many girls who are like oh well i don't do well because i have so much free stuff out there and i just don't think that's necessarily true i think that if you're popping no nothing can stop yeah like i always say like brad pit can make a million movies people want to watch that next one exactly and if there was a line if there was a hey you could go meet kim kardashian tomorrow at five o'clock at the mall there's gonna be a line out the door for kim kardashian if i go to the mall no one's gonna be like oh i've seen her already you know exactly yeah one thousand percent so it's like you know when you have real fans and and that's the difference between like making content and like connecting so it's like when you have a real connection with your fans and you know you're out you're out there like i love kazumi kazumi is so good at connecting and being authentic and she posts a million times a day and she does all these crazy things and she has a bunch of free stuff out there she has a bunch of paid stuff and some girls they just want to do reels and they want all their stuff behind a pay pay wall and that's fine with them it works it works for some people it works so it's like you know you don't want anything free you want to be exclusive that's cool and it's like that might not even be their strategy that might be a subconscious boundary that might be a subconscious boundary where you're telling yourself oh i'll make more money this way but you're just not comfortable with people seeing it for free yeah even though it's like okay but they're gonna pay it then four dollars even the way people sell their content on o-f so it's like i know girls who they refuse to sell a video for less than a hundred dollars and i would try to explain to them a million ways and they used to make me mad because i used to be like are you dumb are you dumb like subscription sites work on low barrier to entry netflix is cheap yeah every subscription thing you've ever thought about is cheap because they're trying to it's supposed to go to a ton of people and i used to make me so mad because i'm like if you buy something for a hundred dollars you're gonna think about that every how you're gonna think about that was that worth a hundred dollars now i don't want to buy the next thing for a hundred dollars yeah if it's five dollars i'm never gonna think about that five dollars but i will buy little videos all day long for five dollars you know like if there was a giant oreo cookie i probably would be like i don't know but a bunch of little ones you know so that's just human psychology yeah you know like like the casinos make most of their money off people betting five six seven dollars there's not that many people that are betting big so psychology that people will pick at little things more than they will because they think about it but what i learned was that that's just that woman's boundary she doesn't for some reason she feels a higher value if they pay more to and it's like what i've learned is that boundaries don't have to be understood yeah if if you if you're totally fine with him liking girls instagram pictures no i'm just saying he knows some other girl some other girl might be like that doesn't bother me yeah you know so it's like my boundaries don't have to make sense to someone else like that's my about some people have nonsense boundaries but at the end of the day they need to promote themselves whether they're doing it yeah on reels not showing anything because there are so many girls where they're literally not showing anything and then they've got millions of followers and then when you go like i always get curious and i'm like okay this person has how many followers how many followers then i'm gonna click the link to you know get directed to their only fans and then they got like millions of likes on there too so it's like they gotta be doing something but yes i used to be like no i'm not letting people in my page for three dollars you know and and then at a point it's funny because you had posted a story about that and then coke was like um he goes i think i think teddy was onto something when when he posted that you know and then we're like okay so we we tried it and we did we like there there has to be a sale all the time to lure them in right so the thing is you're competing with girls who have 10 million followers and their page is $3.99 exactly so why am i gonna pay $15.99 and then let's say i pay 20 a month for you i might think hey you know what let me cancel that because i haven't found it if it's $3.99 i'm never canceling that's how subscription businesses work they work by a low barrier entry that you forget about subscription businesses are hoping that you forget about this payment any app it's $3.99 but when i see when i see something that's $79 i'm like i'm canceling that as soon as i if i don't go if you go to the gym and it's $200 a month if you don't go for two months you feel like you lost $400 you just got scammed yeah $400 but if it's $4.99 yeah you might not go for three years money well spent because i might have went i might have went i could have gone but if it's $200 a month yeah after two months of not using it you feel scammed so when i buy something for five dollars even if the video sucks it was just five bucks i don't feel scammed yeah it was five dollars if i buy a video for a hundred dollars and you're not sleeping with 70 midgets i want my money back you know what i mean so it's like if i'm buying a video for a hundred dollars they're better you know you better be upside down sky diving you know for me to and it could be the best video ever i still might think that wasn't better than 20 five dollar videos you know what i mean yeah because that's how people think it's like well i bought this other girl's videos so i know a girl because she has millions of followers i could not believe this girl sells bundles for eight dollars but that's see i see that sometimes and i'm like whoa like it's not a lot of money take 20 20 percent goes to o-f and i'm just like yeah but i understand she has 300 000 subscribers exactly exactly you know this girl has has hundreds of thousands of subscribers so it's like this girl is uh so it's like and a lot of people are like oh well i'm not gonna be like mcdonald's bitch how much money mcdonald's yeah you know what i mean so it's like when you have a subscription business you might think that you're lowering your value but you're not because you're an owner you own this content you own the business so it's like yeah mcdonald's might be selling hamburgers for 399 but they have 40 locations they have 10 000 people that come in a minute so a lot of times you just have to kind of think that way because i know a girl who fired her only fans team because they were selling her content too cheap and i had to tell her like well i'm i'm all for selling things cheap because people don't leave so my biggest i believe that subscription models is based on people never canceling and never doing chargebacks yeah who does a five dollar chargeback nobody that is not true some people do five dollars very rare 200 chargeback 300 400 whatever you know people do but when it comes to like custom shit i'm not giving something for eight dollars for sure customs customs should be tiered yeah yeah yeah make your money one yeah the ppvs the ppvs and the monthly subscription should be almost free because it's like when you go to a casino it's free to walk in they're giving out cheap drinks that's ppvs and your monthly subscription but you're gonna make all your money in that grind whatever in the hotel to me like you know the stay is crazy expensive you know so to me like those custom stuffs that's where it could really run up and that's where people really get their value but that's exactly it like i when i first started i was like okay well like nobody so you know i would give uh let's say five pictures for like $40 and i was like oh my god like isn't that too much and i'm like you want five pictures that's like minimum 100 or you know or if you want like a two minute or a five minute custom solo i started off at 180 and now i'm at like four five hundred dollars because this is only for you so i i i also say that to say that what i just said is one strategy yeah that i think works for most people i think some girls have such a hardcore fan base yeah where they could literally sell a picture of them putting their socks on for a thousand dollars that's crazy you know like there are some girls out there that they have such a and they don't have millions of followers they might have hundreds of thousands of followers but their fan base is so loyal to them because they're so niche and they're like the anime girls the anime girls the super niche girls those girls that are super niche their level of loyalty is so different because there's so many beautiful girls out there but these men connect on this deep level and it's like wow you're into the same nerdy thing that i'm into and you're beautiful and that's where like the connection comes in i know a girl who she sells picture bundles for 150 and she refuses to sell them cheaper yeah and she doesn't care she makes tons of money and we're like we would i think you would make more money if you sold them too because i don't care my thing and i remember thinking at first who would buy that and you go and you look tons of people are buying people are buying it that's ridiculous um there was someone who told me that she sold one picture one picture a a a cock in her mouth for six hundred dollars one picture when you can literally just look at a video and screenshot it yeah right i mean the most that i've ever sold a picture one picture was two hundred dollars and that was because i wasn't showing my face and this guy was it a custom it was a picture but he asked for a specific picture no i just gave him one of me that i've already taken it was he i wasn't showing my face like like i said at first i was starting like this and i did the mask for a little bit but i just it wasn't me and then i was like he's like come on just show me your face like i know you're pretty show me your face and i'm like yo if i show you my face you're gonna have to pay for that and i monetize showing my face a lot because like you guys want to see my face well here i'm like this picture for two hundred dollars and that that that worked and now they're like okay well we know what you look like so at least you weren't scamming them no i mean no i showed them a real picture because there's a lot of girls who their whole business is based on like oh today i'm really gonna show you something and they never and they never show you anything yeah and i used to be i said like i used to think like wow what a scamming con artist bad person yeah now i'm like people really show up to those wrestling matches yeah people show hundreds of thousands of people watch wrestling yeah and they know that it's fake and they know that it's scripted yes exactly so it's like now i'm like man that's her stretch so you know the more i've seen things because eventually because i used to think like that's wrong you know and maybe like there's not that much like honor in that but these people are into the fact that maybe like if you go to the casino you know your chances are you're gonna lose but people want that chance of maybe maybe you know it's like when i buy the lottery sometimes like i'm like i'm fucking winning this time people think people buy into that fantasy of maybe today's my lucky day maybe you never know right today's gonna show me something she's gonna really show me she takes her top off is another routine i should do that i got something to show you yeah that's funny

[01:50:03:20 - 01:50:05:16] So something else that's really important

[01:50:05:16 - 01:50:12:16] is finding your niche and that is something that I don't think you will know right away. It's something that you got to test out.

[01:50:12:16 - 01:51:07:02] I think I found mine and it's MILF and Stepmommy. Wow, how'd you come up with that? Well, I mean, you know, I mean, I don't have that like super young look where I look like an 18 year old, you know, where I think once I wrote teen and I was like, you know, that makes absolutely no sense. I'm like 33 years old. I can't, I could be someone's stepmommy and I can be a MILF. So that works out. So finding your niche, trial and error. See what people, see what people like when it comes to you specifically. You know, try different titles, try different themes, costumes, you know, I like to mix it up. At first I was doing a little bit of everything until I figured out that MILF. Latina also works for me, even though I'm not. So I mean, let's not get the secret out. Well, I mean, people know, people know. What is your niche?

[01:51:08:06 - 01:51:14:12] My niche is I don't have one. Yeah. Which I think like from a business standpoint is a mistake.

[01:51:15:15 - 01:51:33:12] And I just like doing so many different things and I like to do what the woman is into. So to me, if a girl is like into super rough stuff, I could do like super rough stuff. It takes me a while to get to that point with somebody. But then if someone likes role play, I like to do like role play. I like to do car stuff.

[01:51:34:15 - 01:52:20:04] I just built out like a reverse glory hole. Yes, I saw that. I used to watch like check glory hole when I was younger and like it used to get tons of views. I haven't posted it yet, but I did like a couple of videos with that. But what's a reverse glory hole? So regular glory hole is like a wall hole in it. And then the girls on the other side of it. OK. And then the male extremity will go through the whole reverse glory hole is when the girl's body is sticking out of the wall. OK. And then her body is on the other side. And then she's basically just OK. Reuse. Why did you do the reverse versus the because I always saw reverse glory holes. Cool. OK. Like the girl is just hanging outside the wall. Yeah. Yeah. And then like you're supposed to put like you put her picture up. OK.

[01:52:22:08 - 01:52:35:06] That's funny. You like plaster her picture. And you're like on her face. Yeah. Like a wholesome picture. Yeah. Yeah. And then and then her legs are tied up. OK.

[01:52:36:10 - 01:52:42:06] That's interesting. Yeah. I've I've had like a St. Andrews cross in my house when I was younger. OK.

[01:52:43:21 - 01:53:11:10] And then a milking table like I love milking table. So like a like a massage table. A massage table with a hole in it. OK. That's what something we wanted to do. But like I couldn't bring myself to like make it make a hole and like waste that money. I know you could come in bottom line. OK. We might cook. We might have to go in and test out the. I'll probably clean it before just to make sure. Yeah. There's nothing like you cleaning it first. Yeah.

[01:53:12:13 - 01:53:51:01] First someone telling you that they cleaned it. Yeah. I don't know. I mean you know even if I move into a new house like how we hired somebody to clean it like I'm cleaning the toilet bowls. You know. Yeah. You know the toilet. Well the toilet seats at least you know. I have I had a cleaning lady and I was always like man how am I going to get away with this table. Yeah. And be like there's a hole in the middle of it. Yeah. And I put like this big ass candle on top of it. OK. Right in the middle. I think my cleaning lady has seen it all. She's never asked a single question. She's seen so much insane things for sure. Never once asked anything. She just doesn't say nothing. I said a word. I had somebody come here.

[01:53:52:11 - 01:55:39:14] I had I had pest control come and the whole setup was there and then he was like I was actually telling Lexa this. You mean the podcast. The podcast setup. Yeah. But like the name it's not my real name right. And it kind of like sounds. Porny right. Lexa star. So he's like well you got a podcast and I was like yeah. He's like what's it about. I'm like Christianity Christianity. I should have said that maybe maybe next time. And then he goes oh well like you can tell me what's it about. And it was the second time this guy came to the house for pest control. And I was like well it's about the adult industry and he goes oh cool. So like what about. And I was like I mean you know just like the ins and outs I interview people who are in the industry and you know we talk about things and he goes OK well I'll give you a follow you know and I was like OK cool. And then he goes he goes so how did you start this. I'm like fuck man like all these fucking questions. I'm like well I mean and he wasn't home. So I was like fuck when he was at the gym and I was like come home just come home right now like save me. And then I told him quickly I'm like well like I do adult content. I did. I mean the guy could have just googled the name right and figured it out on his own. So I'm like I do adult content. And he was a young guy too. He's like I do adult content and yeah I just figured I would do something that's safe for work. And he's like that's really cool. That's really cool. He's like so do you do collabs. And I was like I see where this is going. I'm like nobody I don't. It's just me and my husband. It's crazy how a civilian would know what the collabs even mean. Right. And I was like oh I actually have Miss Lexa coming tomorrow and he's like oh I know her. And I was like yeah. Yeah. That's when you hit him with a deep voice and be like yeah my name used to be Richard.

[01:55:41:23 - 01:56:46:08] But I have a worse one. This one this one day I got a knock on my door and I never really answered my door. I'm like I was probably just like someone asking to like treat my window. Yeah. Yeah. And they knocked hard again and I opened the door and it's for like 10 year old kids maybe 12 year old kids with two cameras out there both recording and they go hey man we like your cars. What do you do for a living. Oh man. And I was like I am such a good liar if I need to be and I was like I didn't know what to say. They're like are you a YouTuber. I was like a deer in headlights. I was just like I literally didn't say I was like I don't even know what I said. I closed the door. I was like what does that have. That is so funny. So awkward. And random. Oh my God. What was that is funny. And I think if they would have asked I could have like made up something. No matter how people like I'm in the medical field because I like pretty much am. Yeah.

[01:56:47:10 - 01:56:50:14] But because the cameras were rolling I was like.

[01:56:52:04 - 01:57:09:22] But it's also like you don't expect like four 10 year olds to open your door and be like hey man love your cars. What do you do. They're on their BMX and they're like what's up bro. I was like God. That's hilarious. That's really funny. I just said stay in school. Stay in school. Don't follow my footsteps. So you had mentioned something to me earlier.

[01:57:11:00 - 01:57:15:19] Yeah I have a friend who so people hit me up all the time about like how do I get in the adult industry.

[01:57:17:06 - 01:57:53:07] And for women I always tell them like you know you really should think about it. You should you know obviously see like a therapist. You should write down what your goals are. You should write down like what you're OK with and like you should really have a plan and you need to commit to years of this plan. And what are you going to do if you don't make money at six months. What are you going to do if it doesn't you know because people don't think about that. They think they're going to start and just like you know become Lily Phillips. And my friend the other day he's very popular on Instagram. He's popular on TikTok. So I had already told him like dude you're already popular so you would do well.

[01:57:54:07 - 02:00:28:22] But I'm concerned that like your main goal is like you just want to hook up with the girls. You know which is like you're already a good looking dude you can get girls you know. So it's like you already have a business that is also not necessarily the great look for you to be doing this. So you've got to think about do you really want to do this because he's done it before but he never really promoted it. OK because he didn't want it to affect his business. So I'm like you got to get on the pot. You know you got to you got to figure out what you want to do because it seems like you kind of want to do it. But you also don't want to ruin your life. So it's like you've got to one really commit because doing adult content and hiding is like starting a business. But you don't want to tell anyone about it. So it's like you have to be very public about it to attract people to go to your store which is basically what an page is an online store that sells videos. You're an online video store. So to get people to go there you're going to have to be very vocal about that. And I told him you're popping on TikTok. You know good looking dude like you can do it. But you also have to learn the compliance of it. You need to be getting tested. You need to be shooting with pros and not amateurs. So what I tell people is that you don't want to shoot with amateurs because one he's a good looking dude. So I would imagine that women are going to say yes I'll shoot with you. I've never done this before about do it with you. And then they're probably going to catch feelings and then they're going to feel taken advantage of when you don't date them. So you want to shoot with people that are this is their career not some girl that you met at a bar that's going to let you film her. Yeah. You know and to you know you don't want to you want to shoot during the day now when someone's drunk you know you want to have consenting adults that are very clear about this is what they're OK with because he has like some videos with girls who like let him film. And I'm like yeah that doesn't that doesn't count because you need a release. You want to release for me when I do. So whatever that's going to work other than him. Other guys that hit me up are guys with no social media presence. So you're hitting me up from a random page so you look like a moron because who's going to respond and take anyone seriously that's messaging from a fake one follower account. So you already showed me that you have a low EQ to be successful in the adult industry in my opinion as a male you need to have a high EQ because women naturally have high. So if you're not emotionally intelligent you're going to rub people the wrong way you're going to cross boundaries you're going to do something that's deemed disrespect for something you're going to get canceled or banned.

[02:00:29:22 - 02:01:59:02] So you have to have high emotional intelligence to be an adult. And if you meet a lot of guys in the industry a lot of them are a little femme. And the reason why. Yeah. Just like me you know. But you know I grew and you know I grew up in an older sister. So I do understand like the like the feminine side. But a lot of adult actors are a little femme and they do really well because they understand women and they're not someone who's just all ego and and you know most of those guys don't perform well. Yeah. A lot of like the most egotistical. The camera comes on they can't get it up via. Yeah. So a lot of people in the adult industry are performers. Right. They're not necessarily like the most macho as guys and they and they crush it. Yeah. They're also artsy. A lot of these like you know my friend Alex and I do this dude's like extremely artful and what he does and cares about his video. If he doesn't like a video he doesn't do it. If he doesn't like the chemistry with the girl he cancels. He's very particular about the content he puts out. So your social media is your resume. So you want to look professional and then you want to get some popularity by being like a model. So I put out a video explaining this and this kid messaged me and he's like I did exactly that. So one he got a social media presence to I always say you should develop some type of niche.

[02:02:00:05 - 02:02:41:22] Fitness being the easiest. Yes. So you should become some type of fitness creator that gets views and gets likes already because you want to look like a male model. You should look like a model. Yeah. This is what talent is. You're modeling. So you're not going to click on a girl's page who's not modeling. So you want to model with the girls do the girls post beautiful pictures of themselves and Instagram reels of them doing things as a guy. You need to be doing the same thing. So you need to be showing fitness whatever you do in your daily life and it needs to be good enough where it's getting traction. If you can't get traction off your safe for work stuff and get it. Yeah. Yeah. No girl is going to agree to work. Yeah. You're nobody.

[02:02:43:00 - 02:05:05:03] And then you want to build that social presence. Then you got to get good with a camera. If you don't know about photography and editing and all these other things. Yeah. You're not going to be. What do you bring to the table? You know any guy is going to have sex with a girl. Yeah. So you need to be good with a camera. You got to have a good social media presence. Then women are going to ask you to shoot. If you're hitting up all these girls to shoot and you're nobody and you have 10,000. They're going to they wouldn't even respond to you. So people shoot at the people at their level. So when you're an amateur you got to have some type of following beginning likes and views because that's what women look at. Women are going to look at your Instagram page. See. Hey does this guy get views as he is he popular if I do a collab with him because the video takes off when the two performers are both semi popular or popular. Obviously most more time than not the girl is more popular than the guy and most guys don't care. But then what do you bring to the table? Are you bringing a studio? Do you have great lighting? Do you have an amazing place to shoot? You can't be hitting up girls being like hey you want to shoot at my one bedroom apartment with like my disgusting bed that I like sleep on every night and I've never done a collab before. Don't even understand. So you got to have some type of fun thing like I think like the reason why Miss Alexa reached out to me was because she was like oh you do cool stuff. I saw your jet video. I saw that you did a video with the Rolls Royce. You did stuff outside. So they saw that I was doing things that were different and had some type of budget. So it's like I'm putting money in and investing into my videos. I'm not just saying hey I have a tripod in my bedroom you want to come over. Because anybody can do that. So you got to stand out from the crowd just like women. The most popular women stand out from the crowd. So it's like a lot of these men are like how do I shoot with these girls. Well how come the girls you want to shoot with are popular beautiful and doing really well on social media. So if you're not popular and good looking and doing good on social media they're not going to match with you. And if you don't have the basic IQ and EQ to understand that you need to go flip burgers. You know what I mean. Like this is not for you. Yeah. But now that you say it it does sound like it's a bit more difficult. I mean I always knew it was a bit more difficult for men to get into it.

[02:05:06:13 - 02:06:45:06] But now that you like said everything I'm like OK yeah it's not it's not that easy. It's not as easy as it is for women. But because even like because women can sell solo content. Exactly. And women know how to build a profile. Yeah. Because women are skilled at being beautiful and attracting. They're fighting guys off. Yeah. Men are like dumb in that sense. Or they're like what do you mean. Like they don't know how to dress. You know they're not good at those things. You know. So a lot of them the aesthetic of being an adult actor is just they're clueless. Yeah. You know. Interesting. So if you if anybody wants to if any man wants to get into this we would tell them to come see you. But like you need to you know have your social media presence. So what I would say that this is the order. Yeah. You need to go to therapy. You need to read this this book called the ethical slut. Which is an like to me is like the Bible of sex work. Really talks about polyamory. The ethical. It's it talks about polyamory. It's like open relation because there are men who want to do adult content. They've never even been in the lifestyle. So not everyone has to be what we call in the lifestyle to do adult content. But if you're not aware of what some people call like play like how to play with someone and what their boundaries are like that is a whole another world of adult that people should learn. And then you should create an LLC to get therapists read the ethical slut.

[02:06:46:13 - 02:07:50:11] Start building a following have a social media presence start getting professional pictures taken not selfies in the back and look like a model. You know get in shape post fitness videos if you're into whatever you're into you need to be posting and you need to be getting traction with your safe for work content. Then you know doing reels with girls and really promoting yourself on social media where people maybe you're funny. So people want to do funny reels. I know a guy who he doesn't do only fans content but he does tons of funny reels with only fans girl. And he gets hit up all the time to do content. He's not attractive. Really. Really guys but he's so funny and he's worked with so many girls that all these girls like he's not a creep. He's not a weirdo. He's a nice guy and he's thought about doing only fans but he doesn't. He likes doing comedy and he's an older guy but he's so funny and he gets millions of views and his videos are professional and he dresses up and there's plots and and and like people want to work with him. Yeah.

[02:07:51:12 - 02:10:15:08] The hottest girls in the world like I'll bang you and and you could be a guy who has a six pack abs. Yeah who has all this cool stuff you can have tons of money and you're going to be labeled a creep and a weirdo because you're not understanding the culture and the industry. You're just trying to it's like you walked into a restaurant. This one in the kitchen and said anyone grab the steak. Yeah you have to understand that there's a line that you have to wait for a table. You have to pay you know like there are things. There are steps that you gotta go on before a woman who's popular is going to shoot with you and I'm a big fan of like dude if you've never done this before you need to work with the bottom of the barrel. Yeah you need to be working with girls who you're not attracted to and some guys like oh I would never do that. Well then this might not be the industry. Exactly. You gotta start somewhere. Yeah you gotta start somewhere to you know like you said as a girl you don't have to do that. No you can pick and choose who you. As a guy you should shoot you should be trying to shoot with the most unattractive girls as possible. You should be doing reels with them because they're also trying to make a name for themselves. So you need to work with women that are on your level. And then after you get a couple good recommendations and you build a following because your reputation in the industry is more important than your social media. It's more you can have a million followers but when people ask about you and they say oh you're a creep and a weirdo. Yeah no one's going to work with you. Yeah and also speaking of safe for work content. That is definitely like I don't know if we spoke about this last time but it's like taking off everywhere. Every platform right now has a safe for work option right and that's why you know the podcast safe for work so it brings traction it brings people that eventually lead to your other sites and whatnot but like you can't even be promoted I think on these not safe for work sites if you don't post safe for work content. Right so it's like it all started off as like not safe for work and then now it's like okay well you need to post safe for work shit and it's like God damn it you know it never it never ends. So there was a time where if you had a business it would be nice if you had a website. Yeah then there was a time where if you had a business but you didn't have a website you're sketchy. Yeah then it came a time where it's like okay if you had a business and a website but you have a Google listing you're not a legit business. Then it was like okay you need a business a Google listing a website and you need an Instagram.

[02:10:16:08 - 02:12:33:05] Every business should have an Instagram then it's like okay you need an Instagram you need a podcast you need a Google listing you need a website. So it's like the world is evolving where the standard of what you need is so high because that's what the competition is doing. So if everyone else is willing to do X Y Z you need to do X Y Z there is a time before where you could be a superstar in the adult world and not have any social media or any presence or any website and you're gonna get watched and viewed and pop popularity. We just got to keep going rolling with like what's coming up because I mean if it were to stop here then there's only so much that we can do right there's only so many collabs that you can do but like we just got a you know follow the wheel I guess and do whatever is coming up so that we can keep doing what we do and keep making. My close-mindedness has cost me a lot because I remember five six years ago I knew this guy who had an OF agency and he was making so much money and I remember being like damn I should have done that and I was like well everyone has an agency already that was six seven years ago. But at the time I was like it was like 2019 right before COVID I remember thinking it's already saturated it's done right but it isn't so it's like you know you don't really understand you see the first couple waves and you think that that's it. Yeah, I guess whole tsunami that's now and a lot of my biggest business mistakes was thinking that that time has already passed that that's all right. I can't get big on here because everyone's already popular and it's it's true it is a lot harder now you know back in the day if you could just hire a hundred people from the Philippines for 50 cents a day. You know you could run anyone's account no one cared girls were like oh my god I'm making so much money they weren't even checking if you they were speaking proper English. Now it's like to have a real agency people there's so much competition there is going to get me on. I have so many people reaching out all the time hey Lexus hey Lexus hey Lexus I'm just like oh my god leave me alone and even doing like adult content it's like this girl put a Twitter post the other day she's like making adult content has become like an app.

[02:12:34:05 - 02:12:41:11] So to like Jackass were like every day you got to do something more and more extreme to stay relevant you know yeah.

[02:12:43:05 - 02:13:49:03] Yes, but I mean again boundaries right so it's like people like like even myself I'm not going to do something I don't want exactly yeah but it's like there are women there are people in the industry that they wake up every day thinking what's the craziest thing that I can do yeah and to me it's like clickbaity. It's not authentic it's kind of like gimmicky but then you see them making millions of dollars you're like damn maybe I should have streaked at the Super Bowl. But at a point it's like where's the limit right how far like at a point there's nothing extreme that you can do to top off what you just did you know what I mean unless they have like really good ideas and they always find something about this is like you know people keep wondering like when's Drake going to make a shitty song. Just coming out bangers you know it's like you might have some crazy like every year he comes out with 10 classic songs yeah so it's like there are some people that that is what they enjoy to do and I used to like really be like well they're just popular because they do crazy stuff maybe that's what they enjoy so it's like to me.

[02:13:50:03 - 02:15:56:09] I don't like doing super gimmicky thing I do a cool like I just did like a fast and furious like little thing with a bunch of cars like to me that was cool and I'll do one of those a month or every other month I'll do like a higher production cool little video and like someone did just for Instagram like no. Just say for work yeah and I just felt like doing that but it's like there's no you know X video. It's just maybe maybe there should be maybe it's like you know I honestly if I should have done it because I was just so tired I was like I don't really feel like but I don't know to me I like my friend I was saying this early my friend hit me up and he was like man you're such a pro on Instagram and I don't even think I'm like that popular Instagram but he sees like some of my videos do well and he was asking me what time of day do you post how often you post and I'm like bro I'm on a pre-workout at seven o'clock in the morning and I'm in a blackout I'm posting the dumbest me there are things I've posted that did so horrible and I don't even delete it like but there was there was the your your real that did really good about like the movies that you had like how crazy is it that like something that cost you zero dollars to do the super well versus like I mean I don't know what your car thing you know it's just I've done I've done the most I spent 10 grand. And on a video with like a jet and a supercar and hired a girl stuff and it got horrible views and no one really cared and then like you could be in your car and that's the thing about that's why social media is also so cool because we're all on the same platform. So it's like you could be you know the most successful person in the world and someone can be outperforming you with just a tripod in the light and it's like man sometimes something that's authentic to me that meant a lot because I really do care about film and to me like my top 10 films are special and the reason why I went viral is because I want a hashtag film or whatever but because people who are in that film world was like wow this is actually a really good list.

[02:15:57:11 - 02:17:46:06] And I've made other videos about like about movies since then they've done horror they've done horrible sometimes it works one time. It works one time and it's like to be honest with you like I really do like video or movies so it was cool to post that but I get more validation from that than if I post a video with a girl jumping with her boobs out. Yeah because to me it was cool to see a non-sexual real that was intelligent and funny or like had a niche do well because going viral with adult sexy content is kind of a cheapie way to go by you know, but when you go viral like if you did a video like on parenting that was funny. That's cool. Yeah, but you also can't mix like you know for sure parenting with like there's so many real that I see that I want to share on my story and I'm like nah, you know, like parenting reels and I'm like, oh, this is so funny to me right and then I'm like I'm like obsessed with this girl Rachel Elizabeth she she did. Oh, yes, she she was. Yes, I know her. She was a drug addict. Yeah, and yeah, she looks great. She and she's so funny. She is she and I was talking to her one day because I was I made a video about like people are like, oh, you're so good at reels and I showed them my camera roll. I'm like, bro, that video look how many times I had to redo. Wow. And she was like, that's she's like, dude, just just do it one time. And if you mess up, just go with it. I was like, that's crazy. But she's like the Michael Jordan of TikTok. She's so funny. She's so funny. Yeah. And like, it's her movements. Yeah, it's funny because she's so funny. But then she'll also do a super serious. Yeah. And she's also helped me because sometimes I'd like, well, I can't be the adult actor guy in the recovery guy, you know, but it's like, why not? You know, my one friend.

[02:17:47:08 - 02:18:29:12] I grew up with pretty Rick in the Mavericks. They're like a pretty Ricky like the man. Yeah. You know, pretty Ricky. Of course, baby. Grandma. No way. I grew up with another one of my boys. So spectacularly a good friend of mine. Okay. I remember I was I was talking to him about, you know, I have it's hard for me because I want because I am super serious sometimes, you know, like sometimes there's not a funny bone in me. You know, like I'm just serious. I get sad, you know, whatever. And then sometimes I'm really good with it. And then I'm like, yeah, I also like to do adult content. And I told him, you know, it's really hard for me. And he's like, oh, man. And he was looking at me. He's like, well, I guess the same thing with me. I was like, what are you talking about? Because he's a super serious entrepreneur.

[02:18:30:21 - 02:28:52:04] But then he does shows where he's taking his clothes off and grinding on a bedroom on a mattress. You know, so to him, he's like, well, I guess it's the same thing with me because I got my business shit. And then I got my sexy shit. I was like, I never thought it, but like, yeah, it's true. So it's like, it's a good thing. You know, it's a good thing. I love it. I love it. You know, it's like, it's like, it's like, it's a good thing. It's a good thing. It's a good thing. It's a good thing. It like for him, he can perform and he can sing about all types of crazy stuff and he can like, you know, take his shirt off and the girls scream, whatever. And then the next day he's in a business suit. Yeah. But it also depends because like pretty Ricky, like when they're on stage, they're pretty Ricky, right? This is what they do. And then when, uh, like when he's a businessman, that's what he does. Just like you, you're not, you're when you're performing, you're Teddy, right? Like I can't even, when I think of you, Brian doesn't even come into my mind. Like I know you as Teddy. So it's the same with you. Well, yeah. I mean, there's, there's times where like, I could be pretty funny. Like I was looking at, at something, uh, a real yesterday and I got this idea and I'm like, I should make a real about this saying exactly what I'm thinking. And I think it's fucking hilarious. But then I'm like, are people gonna, you know, accept it because I'm supposed to be like pretty and like sexy to me. It's like, there's a lot of, I feel so good when I think something's funny. Yeah. And then I come and it comes out and then it gets validated through society of saying that's funny because there are times where I want to post something. I'll put in my friendly my group chat and all my friends like, no, that's stupid. Yeah. Or they just ignore me. I'm like, Hey guys, is this funny? They're so sick of my shit. I'm like, Hey guys, I want to post this money. They're like, But you shouldn't ask. You should just post because like what they think is not funny. I know. But sometimes I'm like, they're right. They're like, no, that's retarded. Like my group chat, like most of my friends have kids, they have super serious jobs and it's 11 in the afternoon. And I'm like, Hey, is this meme funny? And they're like, dude, we're like at work. We don't have time to fucking, you ran five miles. One in the gym, one in the hot tub, hung out. When did you just see? It's 11 o'clock and you're getting to your memes. You know, that's hilarious to me. I'm like, well, this is part of my job. So, but I need to let loose a little bit and just be more me. Right. Like personality connects deep. So when people like Rachel Elizabeth, if you're listening, I think she's I'm so attracted to her because she's so funny. Yeah. And she's beautiful. She is. So I was like, wow, it's so funny cause she's just so comfortable with like her whole body and her life or whatever to me. Like that's attractive. So people, and there's so many beautiful girls doing reels of like dancing. So it is cool when someone does something funny cause you're like, Oh well. And I think that's what I do. Like a girl hit me up the other day and she goes, you seem really genuine. I was like, well, that's cool. And then she started sending me like all these news and stuff. You're not genuine. That's what I get for being real. But it's like, like I always say, well comes from the heart reaches. So it's like, and then it's like, even if that doesn't do good, I think posting three reels a day and only one does well. Every other day is better than trying to post one that does good every two days. Yeah. So to me posting three shitty reels and getting into the habit, cause I'm I'm going to do the habit of making content. So there was a time where when I would put my phone up like this, I felt like the biggest loser. I was like, what am I doing? Well, me too. When I put on the tripod, I'm like, okay, what am I going to do now? Fucking lift my shorts up so my butt can jiggle. You know what I mean? So like to me, every time I make a video is just like I'm getting the habit of making content and I'm killing that fear of like, do I look stupid? Do I sound like you're trying to, you know, diminish that negative self talk where you're comfortable in front of the camera because you know, it's just like adult content. Like, you know, with the camera the first time you might be uncomfortable and then you kind of just get used to it. But it's funny because I prefer watching myself on my adult content versus watching myself on the podcast. Well, yeah, you know, I don't know why. I don't know if it's because I'm not talking as much or sometimes I think it's funny because I am talking in the video if it's a role player or whatever. But when I hear my voice when, when he's editing it, I'm just like, Oh, shut that thing off. Like I don't like it. So cause I've been speaking at like 12 step meetings for so long that I just got used to hearing myself. But when I first heard my voice, I'm like, that's what I sound like. You know, I thought it sounded way more thogged up, you know? So like, you know, like, wow, that's what my voice sounds like in my mind. It's like gangster. But it's like when you're young, we, I don't know if you did this, but I think we all did it. We recorded ourselves singing to see if we can actually sing and then you play that shit back and you're like, Oh yeah, you think you think you can sing when you're singing with the song? Exactly. I'm like, Oh man, I could be a singer. But, um, yeah, then you find out everyone auto tunes. Now I'm like, damn, I could have been a rapper. Auto tune. That's all you need. Yeah. Yeah. I always like, I love rap music. I love it and I can rap pretty well. Like I can, if I, if I listened to a song, I can repeat it and I was like, maybe, maybe I would be a rapper one day, but I don't know. I don't think it's, it's my style. I love his little Dickie little Dickie. No, I love old Kanye. Okay. So no, I love him. I love his music too, but I love him because I see like so much similarities. So he was working like a retail clothing store and he had made a whole bunch of music videos. Little Dickie is the white guy, right? Okay. Okay. Yes. I was thinking of somebody else. Okay. I don't know because I, I've seen him a few times, but I have like the whole little Dickie show, the show, no, the TV show. So he put out all, he like made all these music videos and then he was like, okay, I figured out that YouTube algorithm that if you put out enough videos, you know, some of them will catch. And then he put out a couple of videos and they went viral and he quit his job, but he already had enough in the pipeline, which is a big thing with adult creators were like, I talked to a kid and I was like, bro, what's going on with you? Dada. And he's like, Oh, you know, and I was like, you just posted that you haven't posted on OF for two months. Yeah. This is your full time job and then two months. And he's like, yeah, I've been meaning to get to it. And I'm like, that's no, you, you're, you're nobody. You got to be flooding people with all time. You got to be posting as much stuff as you can resell your old stuff. You got to be sending stuff out every day and doing tick talking. And I was like, bro, and you're young and you're good looking like, dude, I would cut my right arm off to be 21 years old right now. Like I would be killing it. I would start over tomorrow with everything. And sometimes I'm like, I'm like, fuck, I should have started early. Right. Like to me, it's like, you know, a lot of people don't know how much ahead of the game they are. They think that they're going to wait for the right time. And it's like, dude, you got so much potential and they just don't see it. So yeah, I was like, Oh, little Dickie. Yeah. So he put out like all these. So, so what I like about little Dickie is that he put out all these videos. They went viral. He quit his job. He started making money with rap, but his dream was always like to do film and production. He like stopped rapping or he had enough clout. And then he put out this TV show and the TV show is done. It has done so well. And it was actually a really good TV show. It was called Dave and it's like based on his true life. But like to me, that's like my end goal. My end goal is to do film. Like my end goal is to do film is to make TV shows or like mini, like mini series or something. You're going to cast me. Oh yeah. You could be the MILF. Okay. Awesome. Okay. So there's a lot of fun sides to like being in the adult industry, but at the end of the day, like it is an actual business and it's not like you just said, your friend, he hasn't posted in two months. Like you cannot do that if you plan on, on, on being in this industry, you got to be consistent. I think that is one of the most important things. You got to be legit, right? You got to do your taxes. You got to do everything. Yeah. Oh, sorry. One second. I miss my, uh, so just like any other job, you need a strategy. You need to be consistent and, um, just keep going at it because I mean, when I started this, I think I quit. I think we both quit our jobs when I made like three K in one month. Okay. And we're like, fuck it. He's like, quit your job. Like you're so miserable there. And then what were you doing? I was a pharmacy technician. So I worked, uh, I worked in the pharmacy and I was really good. I was very good at my job. Um, but I was just miserable. That's what your new niche should be. Hey, that's what your new niche should be. What? The CVS pharmacy tech, the CVS pharmacy tech you think it's like a white lab coat. Maybe, maybe, I don't know. I'll have to think about it. But, uh, and it's funny cause a lot of people always ask me that and they're like, really, I would never picture you doing that. I was really, really good at my job, but the thing is is that the schedule was shit, right? And I would work like either nine to five or four to 10. I would work on weekends and we made three K in one month and he's like, quit your job. And I'm like, this is kind of like, you know, and then the next month we made like two K and I was like, fuck, I gotta go back and get a job. Um, but with that being said every day, uh, I had to post new content. I had to reply to my DMS. So if, if people aren't ready to do that work and to respond, you know, uh, be up to date with their not safe for work content with their safe for work content, then like, don't bother. Right.

[02:28:53:05 - 02:34:01:21] Yeah. I mean your, your marketing is your funnel to your fans. You know, so it's obviously you gotta have and, and it's so competitive. There's so many people doing it right now. So it's like, you really have to stand out and honestly, the number one way to stand out is to be consistent because if you got the best ideas and you're the hottest girl, but you're not consistent, it doesn't matter. And then like a lot of girls run their own account in the beginning and they're ruining their relationships because they're never on their account. They're never chatting their take. I think one of the worst things ever, I would probably like, um, I would be really mad if I bought a custom and never got it. Yeah. Oh my God. But like imagine a guy's never been on OF. He found on Instagram. He really liked you. He downloaded or made an account, put his credit card information and started buying stuff. Then you sold them on this custom. He was like, Oh, I don't know. I never done that before. Then he gets all excited about it and tells you he wants you to wear a certain thing or whatever. He spends a thousand bucks or 700 bucks or whatever it could be. And then he's waiting weeks. No, I, and the adult industry, like there's so much adult content at the tips of your fingers. I couldn't imagine what type of person buys a custom to get five days later or three days later. It's like, well, look, I had somebody who told me they waited a year. Yeah. A year. And I was like, he's, and then he was like, yeah, but like she got someone to film it for her. You can get anyone to film anything for you, right? You have a good friend. They can film it for you. When it comes to customs, I like, I kind of stress when I get accustomed because I'm like, I need to get it to you ASAP. Right. I always give 72 hours until I until, uh, from the moment that I get my payment, but like within 30 hours, you're going to have your custom. You know, I wanted to create a website that is, do you remember rate? My professor, did you ever use my professor? No, I never used it in college, but it was basically where you can look up a professor before you take the college class. But I would like to make a website. I wouldn't do it because it probably would. Yeah. I'd be like, rate my model where it would be like, this is miss Lexa. She responds. And this time if you buy a custom, this is how long it takes them. Whatever. This is like the feedback and it would whatever, because there are some accounts that are so poorly ran and like scams or whatever. And I think it would be interesting to be like, this is what they're willing. This is what they couldn't do on customs. What they want to on customs. But there is, um, Coke, isn't there? I think there's someone who does like reviews. I have some reviews. Do you know what platform it's on? Don't you remember though? Yeah. Oh, I feel like I've, I mean, I feel like I have, somebody gave me a review somewhere. It would be like, like, like the better business bureau. Yeah. That's, that's, that's not a bad idea though, because then that gives people an idea of like, has a 48 hour response time. Yeah. This person has a, this person never money back guarantee. This person's a scammer. Yeah. Yeah. That's not a bad idea. Maybe you shouldn't look into it. I got too many things. But that's it. Yeah. Give me half. Yeah. All righty. Any mistakes to avoid, man. I've made so many. Um, I think I've only done this like one time, but I remember this one time I shot with this girl and I had taken a break from shooting and I didn't have the paperwork and I was like, you know, trying to get my printer to work. And I just thought I had extra ones and I didn't. And then, um, she was in the industry a long time and normally I could just like send one on my phone, but she's like, Oh, I'll give you the paperwork tomorrow. I was like, okay, cool. So I like gave her like a blank one or she had told me that she has blank ones that she'll fill out and send to me. And then she ended up being like, Hey, I didn't like the way I looked in that video. My, cause I can get what bothered me was that her agent told her she doesn't look good without makeup on and said like it kills her brand. I got so mad and I got mad that she has an agent who says stuff like that to her. And like, cause I remember she was like, I'm just going to do it. No makeup on. I'm like, yeah, you look great. And she was like, okay. And then her agent was like, no, it's bad for your brand. You don't look good. Oh my God. And this girl's like gorgeous. So I was like, wow. And I got so annoyed because it's like, man, we did like a three hour shoot. We did reels, we did all this stuff. So everything was scrapped. Yeah. She didn't want anything put out there. Oh my God. That's such a waste of time. And I was just like, and to be honest, the biggest thing that I was mad about was that her agent said that said that. And I was like, dude, who's your, it sounds like a pimp, but you know, like, what, you know, and I was just, I was like, whatever. So then, that's like a mistake where it's just like, and I'm, I'm so good with paperwork, but it was just like, this girl had been in the industry a while. I had just started shooting again and whatever, but what else has happened?

[02:34:03:02 - 02:34:11:08] I mean, I don't have the same stories as you because I only film with one person. So this is like something that I wouldn't know. But when it comes to like,

[02:34:13:09 - 02:34:17:21] I wouldn't call it a mistake, my pricing, it's just like a you learn type of thing.

[02:34:19:08 - 02:35:40:00] But I guess it's different when you're like shooting with different people. So I don't think I have, like, I can't think of any mistakes to avoid for myself because I am a couple's account. But always have your papers ready. Teddy. For sure. Yeah. And I just felt so angry about the situation. I was so mad. I was just like, because I was I just felt like she was getting taken advantage of. And there's something like fucked up agents out there. But another thing is that it's only happened to me like twice, but there has been times where like I didn't press record. Oh, my God. It's usually when I press record and then I press stop and then I put it back on the tripod and then I don't press it again or I press it twice by accident. But the new iPhone has this weird button in the middle. That's like a fake button. And when you put it on the tripod, it will press. And the other day, literally two days ago, I was shooting and this happened one time before. So I put it on the tripod and I press record and I looked and it was recording. Yeah. Like it was red. Right. And I went back to do the scene. And when I went to go look at it, that whole thing was gone. And I guess it had pressed after I walked away. No, I'd rather I'd rather I'd rather do a rock and chisel before ever. Coda. So

[02:35:40:00 - 02:38:28:00] I have that's a that's a mistake that, yes, I can I can agree to, although I am not the camera person. So that is somebody else's job, which actually happened like yesterday. And we were doing like a regular shoe, but we did like behind the scenes VR and then he didn't press record or the mic wasn't on or something like that. But there is, I think even in my Android, I have this thing where like when I put the camera on the tripod on selfie mode and I say smile, it's going to take the picture for me. Right. Or if I put my hand up like a hand motion, it's going to take the picture. But I did realize that sometimes if I take a video, if I like, I don't know, step out, like if I press record and then I step out or I move a certain way, it just stops recording. So that's yeah, that's definitely something to be. You know, what else I did is that there was this guy who was very popular on Instagram for pictures. He did amazing pictures. And I didn't know this early on, but I didn't know that most people who do videography or photography, they specialize in one. They specialize in pictures or video. Very few camera people do both and do both well. This guy did mainly pictures and he had such good reviews on his pictures and everyone works with him. And I was like, hey, do you know anyone who's good with video? And he's like, oh, I could do video. And I was like, I thought you don't do video. He doesn't really do necessarily adult content. He has sexy pictures, but not necessarily like a boy girl. I was like, really? He's like, yeah, I just started. And I was like, okay, screw it. He's got to be great. And man, when I hired him to do this video, it was so clear that he had never done this before. And it was just like basic. And I think he was like nervous, but like he has to stop like multiple times because he had to like get a different camera. And then there was times where he was like, oh, hang on. And then he like left to go get something. And it's like, were you shooting a scene currently shooting the scene? Oh, shit. Damn. All right. So thank God, like the girls like drop dead gorgeous. And I was like, so I was like, I could stay up all day. So I was like, all right, whatever, you know. And he was like cutting and leaving. And that's very, you know, and I've shot with so many not so many, but I've shown enough videographers where, you know, this isn't like a browser scene. We don't need like a hundred pictures or whatever. And they're able to like motion to do this or whatever. And it's very like subtle. And his was very like, you know, a lot of talking and whatever. But the end of it, for most of the scene,

[02:38:29:02 - 02:38:55:10] he couldn't he couldn't find the footage. No. And there's no footage. There was only like four clips and they were each like less than a minute. Oh, my God. And it took weeks and weeks for him to admit that because I kept saying what's up with the video. He's like, oh, I'm working on it. I'm working on it. And then he's like, I'm trying to retrieve it. So like, what do you mean? Retrieve it. And then he basically said that he doesn't know what happened, but it's lost. But it's like, in my opinion, like that just means you didn't press record. Yeah.

[02:38:56:11 - 02:43:47:12] And or like the battery died. So it didn't save properly. But I was like, dude, I was so maxed. I like, dude, I flew out there. I paid what this girl. One of it was like a boy girl girl. I paid this one girl to like a high rate to drive two hours to come do it. The other girls super popular. One of like the most popular girls I've ever shot with. And to me, it's like I hired the videographer. This is my problem. But you know what you he said I just started. I know. He said that. So that is that. Yeah, we are talking about. And I normally shoot with a shout out to step bro. Chad, he's so good. And he was in Vegas and he couldn't do it. And I was like, damn. And then a part of me is like, I can accept mistakes. I can accept someone saying, yo, I screwed up. But you got to be super overly apologetic. Yeah. And like, dude, I'm so sorry. And offering to give me my money back. I probably wouldn't even take it. But he didn't even offer. He didn't even offer to give you the money. I mentioned like, bro, not for nothing, but you're probably giving my money back. And then he's like, he like didn't say yes or no. And then he kind of was like, oh, it's all because we have like this other recording like of because he also did like a VHS tripod video where it's shot in like this old camera. OK, so we have that footage, which is like cool, but it's it's like a retro style video, but no one's going to really pay for a full scene. That's kind of cool for like a little clip. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So he was kind of making jokes like, oh, it's cool. We have the other video would be like a Kim K video. I was like, no, this is not time for jokes. Like we're talking about like four grand was spent. Oh, my God. Airbnb and travel and everything. So it's like next time get a videographer that's experienced. And yeah, you really want people who experience because to me it's a lot of you think that it's well, you think that it's pretty easy for someone to pick up. But man, if you've never done it before, you're never going to do it before. But that's crazy. OK, so we went through a lot. We went through why getting the adult content industry boundaries, choosing your platforms, finding your niche, branding, the business aspect of it, mistakes to avoid any final tips or encouragement for somebody who is listening that is on the fence and is so I always tell people that you need to run your own account, all your accounts until you're making like 10 grand a month. If you cannot handle that, you are lazy. You're lazy and you don't want to work because people who are like, oh, I need someone to manage this. It's too much for me. It's like you're not even like if you can't manage 20 messages a day on your off. Yeah, then you're never going to understand how to do it. So you're never going to be able to monitor somebody. So if you don't know how to do the job, you can't check on the job. So like even when I started my first company in the beginning, I wore 10 different hats and I did everything. OK, so when I would hire someone to take over this job when it got bigger, they would be like, oh, well, you know, this took me three hours. I'm like, no, it didn't because I used to do it in an hour. So it doesn't take an hour. Oh, Brian, we're having issues with this. OK, what's going on? Well, this isn't working. OK, this isn't working because you didn't try hard enough or you're not doing it properly. Let me come and show you how to do it and it better be done this way. So when you don't run your own account, you're not sending out like if you can't send out two PPVs a day and respond to your top priority messages and send people content back and forth and chat with them for at least two hours a day, you're not serious. And then some girls like, oh, well, I don't want to do that. But then don't do it. Then don't start. Like don't get into it. Well, that's fine. Yeah. Outsource it. Yeah. And when you run into a whole bunch of problems outsourcing it and you don't know what's going on with your account, I know girls who are like, oh, I don't know why I don't make any money. And I don't know. Well, how often do you check your OI value? Oh, I don't even log into it. OK, well, you've never you've never created a foundation. So all these random people are running your account and you don't have a one on one relationship with any of your fans. And then people feel scammed and you've hopped around from agency to agency. You focus on your pro scenes that were paying you a lot of money in the beginning because you were new. Yeah. So this is what happens to the girls in the industry. They do. They get hit up by pro scenes. They start doing pro scenes. Oh, wow. I'm making twelve hundred dollars a scene. Fifteen hundred dollars a scene. Oh, I have a scene every single day. I'm going to do that. Oh, wait. What about my O.F. Oh, that's kind of annoying. Let me just chase this money. Yeah. Two months goes by. Hey, how come I'm not getting booked? Oh, well, we'll hit you up later. Another month goes by. Hey, I don't have any scenes this month.

[02:43:48:12 - 02:45:18:19] Well, we already shot you. So we're just going to wait till later and then they're shooting all the other new girls. Yeah. And then four months goes by and you're like, let me go look at my O.F. Two hundred unread messages. I'm not going to look at that. And then seven months goes by. Maybe I should hire an agency or hire an agency. Oh, I'm making less money now. And then a year goes by and they're like, OK, well, I'm getting booked once a month or twice a month and I'm not making any money. And then someone's like, you should do Instagram. You're like, well, I try, but it gets deleted. And now you're like, oh, well, my Instagram gets I'm perma-banned on Instagram. OK, well, that's because you didn't take Instagram seriously when you started and you kept getting deleted and you thought it was cute. I know girls who are like, well, I just got deleted. I was like, that's not funny. It's not because it's three grand to get your account back. So when you get deleted, you need to figure out why you're getting them because on Instagram, there is a reason why you're getting deleted. No one gets everyone's going to get deleted for some petty thing. But once you kind of learn what to post and what not to post, it shouldn't be happening too often and you should be able to get your account back quickly. Yeah. So that is the common mistake that girls make. And now they've been in the industry two, three years and they're making four grand a month off of and they're getting booked four times a month and they're making four grand off that. And then they got to pay their agent and taxes. You've been doing adult content for two years and you're making 60 grand a year. Yeah. Yeah. So it's like, you know.

[02:45:20:01 - 02:49:20:18] And then God forbid you agree to do stuff you weren't comfortable with. Now you have this burden. So you have to have your O.F. even if you have 10 fans, you got to be talking to those 10 fans every single day. One thousand percent. Even if you have 40 fans, you better be talking to them every day, checking in with them. Oh, they don't spend any money. It's okay. You know, just one day they will. Yeah. One day they will. Whatever. So it's like you got to just like a lot of girls have like this real negativity with their fans. Oh, they're broke. Oh, they're this. They're that I've gotten on because I have an agency to I've got on a girl's account and everyone else because I was just down there messing around. Everyone else was talking to like the big spenders who were on the account. I messaged someone and you could look at their history. This guy had only spent like a hundred dollars in a year. I started talking to them, whatever. The guy spent a thousand dollars on a custom. Crazy. You'd never spent money before, but he's labeled as a broke key. Yeah. It's just like when you go to the dealership, no one wants to feel like they profiled you as broke, you know, and I don't care who you are. If you're horny, you find the money, you know, if you're horny, you find the money. There was my neighbor, my neighbor back in Canada when went to visit, he said, because I always have this fear like, okay, what if one day all this goes to shit, right? And then it's like, okay, well, this is how I make my money. But then, you know, all of a sudden it's gone. And he will, he goes, he says, Lexus, he goes in any recession, the only three things that are always going to survive are food, sex, and drugs. And I was like, so just like you said, they're going to find the money, right? It's, it's like recession proof. And it's like people are like, all these people are broke. No one who has an only fans, everyone who has OF as a guy can afford $500, $300. And all these people can, they're lying. Like not that they're lying that you have to get them to want to spend it. Yeah. So it's like when you develop real relationships and you're talking to them and you're not just sending generic messages, you can hook people in to feel that there's value here and they're going to splurge or whatever. And the problem is, is that when people only go for the low hanging fruit, they build a character of themselves where if it's not easy, they don't want to do it. So it's like you have, if you have 500 fans, you're just focusing on the ones that just buy stuff blindly. Not everybody is like that. You got to focus on everyone and treat people equally. And even if a guy only spends $10 a week, that might be more money than someone who's a millionaire who spends $50 a day, you know, but, but this is all their, their money, you know, and it's like all that little stuff adds up, you know, so a lot of times it's just keeping a tight ship and making your OF your priority because your OF is how you're going to retire. Yeah. You're not retiring off page shoots. No, no, you know, you know, your, your fan base, even your fan base, not just OF your fan base is what is going to bring you money because now you can sell merch. If there's a new platform, they're going to go there. So when you build that connection with your real root fans, that's what the value is. But if people don't want to do that, because there's no instant gratification with that. Yeah. You know? Yeah. So I think at the end of the day, like as much as we have this persona that we portray, right? You still have to be real at the end of the day. And like, this is a business where you're interacting with people and you got to be true and you got to, you got to interact with them and you got to be, you know, you can't just, like you said, have them and tell you all this guy is broke. Like they're there for a reason. They came here for a reason. So give them the reason to spend. And a lot of these girls that are killing it are hustling way more than all the guys like Lily Phillips. This girl has a ready breach super stardom like 50 years and now 50 years from now, she's going to be known as one of the most popular adult actresses ever, you know,

[02:49:22:03 - 02:51:08:21] every single day. Like I follow her on all of her accounts. She's like, get ready with me on the plane. She's on an airplane doing a vlog of her makeup that she brings on the airplane. Yeah. She's getting dressed in the morning doing a vlog about how she's putting her makeup on at this hotel. And then she lost her bags. And like the content is like, there's nothing like special interesting, but it's her, but she's consistent and her fans get to see what she looks like without makeup. Her fans get to see what her getting on an airplane. Her fans get to see where she's going to next. And she's made it so consistent that people feel like they really know her. So it's like, she could have just been chilling and just been like, she doesn't need to do that. But every single day she put out, I'll never forget. I didn't know her that well prior to this, but I'll never forget. She put out a story saying that she's looking for, um, Clippers. And that's when I was like, damn, this girl is a freaking hustler. So Clippers are basically like a group of people that clip up your content and then repost it. Okay. So it's like that signifies that this girl is running a real business. Like she's not just fucking around. She's hiring Clippers. Wow. You know, which is like the Andrew Tate method. And you take really is like the male version of Lily Phil. You know what I mean? So this is a guy who did crazy extreme things, got really popular and then had like this online course, which to me, selling online courses is the male version of doing, oh, you know, because you're selling a skillset to young men and a mindset or whatever. And then girls are selling their sexuality. Yeah. You know, so, you know, to me, men and women have two different superpowers. A woman's superpower

[02:51:10:00 - 02:52:37:16] is her sexuality and her prowess, you know, so like, Oh, and you might not think of it as a superpower, but the most strongest UFC fighter will fall because of a woman's sexuality. So it's like sexuality can outdo, you know, the strongest man, you know, and men are strong and they're problem solvers. Yes. So men are super strong and we can problem solve. Whereas like if there's a typhoon coming, we can play in, we can figure it out, whatever. Women, that's, I'm not saying a woman can't do that. Naturally. Yeah. That is not what they're good at. What they're good at is to be like, babe, you saw how that guy looked at you like what? Fuck that guy. I don't like that guy. And our guys like, no, that's my boy. Women can pick up social cues and they know how to maneuver and they know how to be like, you shouldn't have told that guy we had money. Yeah. Things like that. Like women are really good at those types of things, you know, where a guy is kind of like an idiot, you know, when it comes to those social things. But if that guy tried to fight us, I could fight that. Exactly. A woman couldn't do that, but a woman could maneuver away from that before it happens or something like that. So for me, like what Andrew Tate did is the same thing. He's selling courses to men, preaching self-defense and, and, you know, being an alpha, whatever. And then part of his university that he had or whatever it was called,

[02:52:38:18 - 02:54:00:04] he would pay you to copy clips of him and then post repost it. So in his own universe, he had people that were self promoting him and then he created jobs for them too. If you promote him, Lily Phillips does the same thing. Clippers, they're clipping up your, your, your video and then other people are reposting it for you. Or they're making accounts like fan pages, like a Lily Phillips fan page. Oh, Lily Phillips, vlogging, Lily Phillips flying, Lily Phillips doing this. So they're making all these other pages. So Instagram has kind of shut this down because they don't want a million fan pages out there. But back in the day, you could have a hundred TikToks, but that's why you couldn't open up TikTok and not see Andrew Tate because he had all these Clippers. Oh God. He had people, because he would do a podcast and he had an army of people who would clip it all up. And now let's say only got 500 views, but 500 views times 17 accounts, 20 accounts. You have all these spam accounts that are repurposing and retargeting different audiences. You can't open up Instagram and not see. So that's what Clippers are. And Kazumi is really good at this too. Kazumi has been shadow banned and deleted a hundred million times and she's gained tons of traction because she has Clippers. She has people who do the podcast. She says outlandish, crazy things, you know, unfortunately saying something, you know, like I used to not like

[02:54:01:09 - 02:59:21:06] Arnold Schwarzenegger, because in, I love like the most men who work out, have seen a pumping iron and then pumping iron. He makes a comment where he says, Oh, I love working out. I love a pump. A pump is just like coming. I feel like I'm coming in. I'm coming. I remember watching this being like, what the fuck was that? I read on the Schwarzenegger book and he said that he purposely said that to get people's attention. And I remember being like, well, that's the one thing I remember that he said. So I started to realize that even Mike Tyson, Mike Tyson went on a podcast and they were like, man, you know, we saw you hanging out with so and so, but you said in an interview that you can't stand this motherfucker and you want to kill him. And he goes, yeah, that's called selling tickets. So a lot of times I have to take a look at, okay, Angie Tate is saying things to sell tickets. Lily Phillips, the same things to say tickets. I've also met some people in the industry where I'm like, Hey, I saw that thing you did. That was really funny. And they're like, no, that really happened. Okay. Yeah. So it's like some people are authentically crazy. And I think Lily Phillips is authentic. I don't think I follow her. I think she's really good. Yeah. I mean, so her social media, her personal page is literally like a model page. Like she doesn't post anything cringe or weird, but then she has other pages where she posts like her vlog and stuff like that. But her main page, you would just think she she's by herself on the beach modeling, like she like professional photos. She doesn't really do that whole like tick tock type of thing. Is she on to talk though? Or she might be, but she doesn't post like on her main page. She doesn't post like real. Okay. It's very much like separated, you know, isn't it reels that get you new followers? Yeah. But I think that her, that was just her strategy. She has done such a crazy thing that she doesn't really need to post daily on her, on her main page. Her main page. I think she just posts like mainly just like cute pictures of herself. And it's funny because her pictures are so regular and like artsy and pretty. And then she's doing this raunchy things. And I think that works well with people is that it's like, you know, the, the allure of a woman is like, man, I wonder what she's really like. Because if you're giving everything on Instagram or on reels or whatever, then it's like, that's what I realized also is like people do so much on Instagram to get people to like sub, but it's like you're practically giving everything away. So like they won't want to come to your, to your only fans. Like I said, that's some people strategy like Kazumi, she's just herself, but she posts all types of stuff. But I think that's just her personality. Cause I, it's funny. I started a snap. Okay. I started a snap chat and I need to post like, um, 20 to like 20 posts and it's like 10 seconds of a video is, is one post and then you can put pictures. And then now I need to do 30 posts a day. So that's like three minutes of talking or like pictures. And every time like, let's say I'll go to the beach and I'm going to have lunch there, whatever. Like I take all these cute little pictures and I'm posting. And then when, when I haven't done anything, uh, for snap that day, I go in my bathroom and I just fill myself talk. Okay. But what happened in my day? And, and I think I like, I just, I got, now I have 6.7 K followers on it just randomly. And then like, I went from 3000 to 6,000 overnight. And then the real, sorry, the snaps that are getting the most views are the ones of me just talking. Yeah. And I'm just like, you know, and then that's what he was saying is that people, people who they see you on Instagram, they like you. Then they're like, okay, well, you know, I like her. I want to see her naked, let's say. So then they go on your only fans. Then they're like, okay, but I want to know how she is, you know, in person or like her day to day. So then let me go on snap or, you know, so it's all this, like, it's like a vicious, not a vicious circle, but it's all, you know, it all aligns and, um, and yeah, it's like another. So a part of it is also like, okay, I got to see what you look like. Okay. I got to see what you look like naked. Yeah. I want to know what you sound like. Oh, I want to know what you, how you think. So now it's like, I'm peering into these other parts of you that are also a mystery to people, you know, and even like myself, like I just saw, like, I just went to suicide boys concert and I love the suicide boys, but after I went to their concert, I was like, I want to go watch them on a podcast because now I was like, man, that was like, for some reason I've never listened to them on a podcast. And now I want to hear their story, you know, and, um, it's the same thing. So it's like, you know, one door leads to another where you can really see like how in depth someone is. And to me, it's like, you got to do what you like to do. Yes. Because, uh, man, you know, Rick, he didn't probably don't know who Rick Rubin is, right? No, Rick Rubin is like the genius of music. Where he doesn't play an instrument. Like people always make fun of him. Like two memes of him because he's gotten paid millions and millions of dollars over the years.

[02:59:22:15 - 03:02:38:17] And people are like, what instrument do you play? Nothing. He's like, well, do you have a label? He's like, no, people pay him for his opinion on music. Well, that's it. Well, just to hear the song, they're like songs that credit him. And all he did was listen to it and he'll, there's so many songs that he'll be like, I think you should do this or I think you should play this or maybe if you added that and that's all he does. A little tiny thing. And the guy is like, like, like the Buddha of the music industry. And he said that when you're creating art, the audience needs to come last. So I, when I heard that, I was like, well, I don't ever want to make something. And I'm thinking about the audience first. Exactly. I want to make it and think about if I like it and I'm cool with it and I thought it was cool. Then, you know, that's so I think that that is like one of the things that I try to think about when I'm making content. Because what I said before, my friend was asking for all these like opinions on what I post. I'm like, dude, I'm just posting like in a manic state. I'm not even strategizing what time I'm posting, whatever, because I want to post often. That's the only thing I want to do. I want to post often and that's it. And that's my strategy because I've never been someone who's going to like strike gold and get lucky, but I'm somebody who's not going to stop digging. That's my personality. I've done that with everything, you know? So everyone needs to find their own strategy. But I post stuff that I want to post about. I post car videos. Like I'm obsessed with cars. I post car videos. I get a thousand views. Yeah. To me, I'm like, this is the sickest shit I've ever posted. You know, no one even cares. People like my movie list. And like sometimes my movie lists will hit and sometimes like I'll do something that's not about adult content that does well. But I thought it was cool. And that's really all I really think about. I have fun with social media and like, yeah, there's a strategy to it. But also don't kill myself trying to please other people. And I don't hide my likes. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That I see a lot of people doing and I'm just like, no, yeah, I wish I could be like, man, you should do some affirmations, you know, because it's like, because that's where it comes from. Yeah. You know, because it's like, oh, well, people's. And then there's also like someone who's like, well, I don't want anyone to judge me based on my my likes or whatever. You got, you just got to do it and not give a fuck about what anybody thinks. Because at the end of the day, you're doing this for, like you said yourself before you do it for a consumer. What was cool? I did this video about backpacks and it was like what your backpack said about you and I was like all the different backpack. It did horrible. It got like, not horrible. I got like 12,000 views. And there was a girl who's super popular in the industry. And she was like, you know, when I really started to like you, I was like, well, she goes, your backpack. Really? She was like, yeah, she's like, I thought you were like, cool. Whatever. But when I saw your backpack video, she was like, that's when I was like, I'm hitting this guy up. And she never told me that. That's funny. So I was like, well, that's interesting because a lot of times people in the industry or other co-performers, they're not looking at your most viewed picture. If anything, they're looking at the little thing that you put, like the thing that didn't get any like that's more authentically you. Then yeah,

[03:02:38:17 - 03:02:45:05] So to sum it all up. Don't get into the adult industry. Go to church.

[03:02:47:01 - 03:02:53:07] Find God. You can find don't say that because I'm like, I'm not super religious, but I believe in God a lot.

[03:02:53:07 - 03:02:54:21] I know.

[03:02:54:21 - 03:03:18:00] Trust God. So don't say that because now you're, you're, you're making me think that because I'm doing what I'm doing, God's not happy with me. But that's not true. Right? No, no, of course not. But just to sum it, summarize everything. Especially you. What do you mean? You just do it with you. Exactly. Well, that's true. Yeah. So yeah, but you're, you're a guy. It's in your nature to,

[03:03:19:03 - 03:03:39:21] to, you know, I feel like things. I feel like God looks at us like children on the playground. Yeah. Where it's like, even like, you know, if I was a school teacher and someone was like, there's a kid over there licking rocks and throwing them at the wall. He's like, yeah, whatever. Yeah. That's just how that kid is. You know,

[03:03:41:00 - 03:04:50:11] because it's like, you know, the worst thing that you can think of as a kid doing to another kid, we know that their kids. So we look at them like, okay, he took your toy. Oh, they hit you. You know, like, sorry, but, you know, and also, if you're a parent, it's like, well, I know you don't understand this, but I love them just as much as I love you. You know, you might not, you don't get it. Or if you're a teacher, it's like, I, you know, of course they might have my favorites, but I got to act as if they're all my, I'm not going to be mean to a kid that you don't like, because he's more difficult than you. And it's like, I believe like God forgives things and looks past things that I think is insane and unforgivable. Yes. So it's like, God forgives Hitler. Yeah. If technically, if you're a Christian, if Hitler before he died said he accepts Jesus in his life as Lord and slavery, he goes to heaven. Right. So I think we're pretty, we're, we're, we're safe. So it's like, and I'm not here to say that, you know, I, what I do in my life is the most purist of things.

[03:04:51:14 - 03:06:00:17] Because if, if that was the case, I would sell all my possessions and go work at a foster children's foster care in Africa. Right. If I wanted to be the, so it's like, and if you don't do that, you're not the most purist former, even though it started to go on a tangent, but I was what I was reading this. One of my favorite poets just died and I've been like obsessed, listening to her. She has this poet poetry thing where she says, I wouldn't always talk about Gandhi and how much like Gandhi, cause I mean, who's holier than Gandhi? Gandhi has been revered as like the greatest spiritual teacher of her time. God or Gandhi said that if a woman gets raped, she shouldn't fight back. That's like a true statement from him that, that if you're getting raped, you just let him rape you. Jesus Murphy. Okay. So it's like, you know, even the most spiritual people you could ever think about have unpured parts of them, have done things that are screwed up, that have said things that are screwed up, have views that would never align with anything that you believe in. And even if I do something that you don't agree with,

[03:06:01:20 - 03:07:07:07] and if it's not perfect, we all do things that aren't perfect. And I draw my line in the sand very clear. Like I'm not doing unconsensual things. I'm not hurting anybody. Yes. I'm not doing anything illegal. Uh, I'm not drugging people. I'm not doing things with someone who's like intoxicated. I'm not manipulating. To me, what I do is more transparent than a car salesman who finds a lady who's a little older and manipulates them into buying the freaking pain protection. Yeah. If you do that, you're not okay. You know, I totally agree with what you mean. There's more honesty in what I do than the guy at the dealership convincing the old lady that she needs a $500 pain protection. Yeah. You know what I mean? Yeah. No, I get what I am. There are tons of industries where people push boundaries and manipulate and do things. And if anything, sometimes the adult world is the most honest it can get because it's like, I'm hiring someone for a certain service and we're doing a certain service.

[03:07:08:10 - 03:07:23:00] And this is one of the few industries where the customer is almost always happy. Yeah, exactly. I mean, just like in any business, there are some bad apples, but everybody that I've met that does this is super chill and super nice. I haven't had a bad experience. So

[03:07:25:01 - 03:09:24:05] like I feel better doing what I do than being like the CEO of Pfizer and like, you know, I mean, think about this. You're in the pharmacy industry, pharmacy industry, and I was corrupt industries ever. And also like we knew that this person was like abusing, God was unhappier. Right. Okay. So we're safe. We're good. I have no problem with that. But like when I was in the pharmacy, I knew people were abusing things and like, because they were still coming on time and they weren't super early on their prescriptions, like we still have to give it to them. And it's like, I'm literally, we're just giving you drugs when you're, you know, been caught saying that they're developing drugs that are made to be addicting that their marketing is not addictive. Yeah. And they're bonusing people out for how much they're prescribing. Oh yeah. Doctors get paid bonuses for over prescribing and it is, you know, a dark, dark world. It really is. It really is. And I'm glad I'm not in that anymore. And I'm glad that, you know, I'm not going to be in the business of making people happy, right? Making people happy. So if you guys want to get into doing any adult content, be consistent, you know, upload on platforms, set your boundaries. Don't forget that this is a real business. It's not just for fun. Don't just, you know, start posting shit on your OnlyFans and then not checking it for two months. If you can't be consistent with anything that you do, then like, don't even start. Don't even start this because you're just gonna, you know, it's going to go to shit. So that is a wrap on today's show. I want to thank my co-host Teddy Tarantino for being here with me. If you guys got anything out of this today, give us a like, subscribe, check us out and let us know in the comments what you would like for us to speak about next. I am your host, Alexis Star. And this is Teddy Tarantino.

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