EP35 Remy Lacroix | I Started With the Most Extreme Scene… and Won an Award

00;00;00;00 - 00;00;02;06 Unknown So you have been in the

00;00;02;09 - 00;00;04;08 Unknown industry. You're like an og.

00;00;04;11 - 00;00;19;04 Unknown OG. Yeah, right. How long has it been? Since 2012? 2012. So that's a long time. You've been in the game for quite some time. Yeah. That was like the the prime time DVD. Yes. Are there DVDs of you? Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah.

00;00;19;05 - 00;00;21;14 Unknown So there's no way.

00;00;21;20 - 00;00;25;02 Unknown The funny feedback that I got from the

00;00;25;04 - 00;00;31;06 Unknown scene was a lot of the fans that watch that they're like I don't like her nose ring because it takes away the innocence.

00;00;31;11 - 00;00;46;08 Unknown The innocence. Do I look innocent. Right on. I'm like no freaking way. That is wild. I feel like they're always going to find something to say, right? It's like, are you fucking serious?

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00;01;10;27 - 00;01;17;12 Unknown Joining me is a lovely lady today. Welcome back to the Alexis, our show. I'm going to let her introduce herself. So please

00;01;17;14 - 00;01;22;18 Unknown do I look at the camera. You just. You look at me. Does it matter? I'm Remy.

00;01;22;21 - 00;01;25;19 Unknown Nice to meet you. To thank you for being on our podcast today.

00;01;25;22 - 00;01;26;17 Unknown Thank you for that.

00;01;26;20 - 00;01;29;05 Unknown So you have been in the

00;01;29;08 - 00;01;31;07 Unknown industry. You're like an og.

00;01;31;10 - 00;01;46;03 Unknown OG. Yeah, right. How long has it been? Since 2012? 2012. So that's a long time. You've been in the game for quite some time. Yeah. That was like the the prime time DVD. Yes. Are there DVDs of you? Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah.

00;01;46;04 - 00;01;57;17 Unknown So there's no way. No. Yeah. It was. It was a great time. Oh, wow. That's amazing. And what what made you decide to get into this field?

00;01;57;21 - 00;02;12;24 Unknown So I had back, you know, 2011, 2012, just graduated college. Okay. And I was heading towards the biology. Right? Okay. Wow. So I just woke up one day and I was like,

00;02;12;27 - 00;02;39;28 Unknown That's boring. I'm going to a scene. Okay. I shot my first scene in 2012 for kangkong. Okay. Very first one, which is kind of crazy because not a lot of people start out with like, hardcore Bdsm. Scenes. And that was my first scene ever. And so on set that day. There's a lot of people and directors, they're like, if you can handle something like that, then you should probably go to LA because it's super fun and easy.

00;02;40;00 - 00;02;59;02 Unknown You know. Yeah. Yeah. Like oh. Okay. So Agent moved to L.A. for a couple months and just started shooting. So your first scene ever was a Bdsm intense scene. What was your thought like when you. When you did that, what were you like, totally okay with it or did you want to? I definitely signed up for it.

00;02;59;03 - 00;03;04;26 Unknown Okay. Was, you know, like something I checked off the list. I was specifically bound

00;03;04;29 - 00;03;22;01 Unknown gangbang. Oh, so it was really overwhelming in the best way. Okay. I signed up for it. Yeah. I wanted, but it's hard to imagine having that kind of scenario in real life. Beautiful men. They're all tested. They're all safe at the same time.

00;03;22;04 - 00;03;39;05 Unknown No one was like really. So orchestrating those kinds of things in real life. Yeah. But it's a lot harder. Like this feels like the one time in life where I could just be like do it. Yeah. Crazy. And then have working out really well. Wow. Great time. And it led to so many other more opportunities and it was.

00;03;39;12 - 00;04;02;01 Unknown How old were you when you shot your first scene? I was 20, let's see, 2002, I think I was 22. 22. So you just you just like, screw this biology route. I see. Wow. And I was like, never mind. And did it blow up? Like, did the scene you really, really good. Yes. Okay. For a few reasons. Because again, not a lot of girls start out that way.

00;04;02;04 - 00;04;04;09 Unknown You have a new female performer in the

00;04;04;12 - 00;04;13;24 Unknown industry. There's a very like tiered way to introduce yourself. Yeah. So it's like solo girl girl and then

00;04;13;27 - 00;04;14;24 Unknown boy girl,

00;04;14;24 - 00;04;15;07 Unknown boy girl

00;04;15;14 - 00;04;21;09 Unknown anal and you sort of. So my first scene was boy boy boy boy girl deep

00;04;21;12 - 00;04;27;14 Unknown Wow. So I just jumped. And what that did I mean it was a great scene and I had a great time too.

00;04;27;14 - 00;04;57;21 Unknown So that was a good part of it. That scene is what got me my very first Amy an award. Oh wow. Congrats. Wow. That's new starlet in 2013. Oh my God, that's amazing. That was really cool. Wow. It just opened so many doors. And yeah, I met so many people and. Yeah. Wow. And. Did you find. Because I feel like sometimes when you try something like a new scene or a different scenario, people after expect that all the time.

00;04;57;24 - 00;05;14;06 Unknown Do you feel like because you went, you went big right away. Was it like when people were like, oh, but what are you doing now? You're just doing solos or just being boy girl? Did you get any of that feedback? I actually didn't get that feedback, but a lot of people just kind of have the expectation of every scene was going to be

00;05;14;08 - 00;05;15;02 Unknown involved.

00;05;15;05 - 00;05;38;26 Unknown That's not well, because I have a butthole, but I always yeah, everything and it loses. It's not exactly, you know, gourmet Michelin star every single meal. Yeah, right anymore. But, no, I didn't really get that feedback so much. I think because, I mean, I'm 37 now, especially back in the day. I get the freckles, the round face.

00;05;38;28 - 00;05;46;23 Unknown It just looks very young. Diving into the young girl stuff that LA was shooting at the time. It just kind of worked out.

00;05;46;25 - 00;05;50;07 Unknown The funny feedback that I got from the

00;05;50;09 - 00;05;56;11 Unknown scene was a lot of the fans that watch that they're like I don't like her nose ring because it takes away the innocence.

00;05;56;16 - 00;06;11;15 Unknown The innocence. Do I look innocent. Right on. I'm like no freaking way. That is wild. I feel like they're always going to find something to say, right? It's like, are you fucking serious?

00;06;11;18 - 00;06;19;11 Unknown But I love that nose ring, FYI. I love the little round. I've been thinking about it, but I'm not a fan of my nose. So for you.

00;06;19;11 - 00;06;40;26 Unknown Fine. Yeah. Oh, no, I prefer that. Oh, yeah, I prefer the who. Just a little bit. Yeah. It's like I don't need to put any jewelry. I got some on my nose. What do you, what are the differences from shooting, you know, in 2012 and shooting right now? Because, you know, back in the days. Back in the days.

00;06;40;26 - 00;06;45;00 Unknown It wasn't that long ago, but but but back in the day,

00;06;45;00 - 00;06;49;16 Unknown you know, we didn't have social media, we didn't have all these platforms. So even the feedback that you were getting, was it like

00;06;49;16 - 00;06;58;13 Unknown on the website was on forums? Okay. So, you know, there's a, like I said, DVDs, there's this huge fan forum called adult DVD talk.

00;06;58;17 - 00;07;22;08 Unknown Okay. Not active on those threads anymore because I find that it can be a bit to criticize, okay, criticizing women more than they're lifting them up. Situation. But it is where fans kind of go to talk about teens and stuff and all of that. So more of a forum. Okay. And that was before Twitter Instagram Instagram. Oh social.

00;07;22;10 - 00;07;41;07 Unknown You know. Yeah. Now there's everything. But I feel like no matter what even if you know they had that forum or you know, Instagram, TikTok, there's still going to be criticism, you know on any platform even on like page, you know on the comments like there's videos, there's videos where it's like, I love her. Do this, please do this, do that.

00;07;41;09 - 00;08;01;21 Unknown And then you have that one hater who's going to comment on every single video and is like, she should hide her face again because I as you say that as you type. Exactly right. And I and totally and and before I would be I would get triggered by these comments. Right. Especially when I was just starting out. And then, after that, I was like, thank you so much for your comment.

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00;08;42;17 - 00;08;45;20 Unknown Are you still actively shooting? I am more for

00;08;45;27 - 00;08;55;15 Unknown OnlyFans. Okay. I haven't been on set in a while. Okay. I shot my like, last on set scene for and remember last year. Okay, so yeah, not so much on set.

00;08;55;15 - 00;08;58;17 Unknown And what kind of content do you do on your, OS

00;08;58;19 - 00;09;05;28 Unknown I've been doing a lot of, Oh, sorry. Not. No. I've been doing a lot of solo content, so I just got this really cool

00;09;06;01 - 00;09;15;01 Unknown machine. Basically, like, you put whatever toy you want on it. And is it the hibachi or something that is cool? Like an actual, like,

00;09;15;03 - 00;09;21;16 Unknown okay, okay, okay, okay. And there's a remote for this.

00;09;21;18 - 00;09;46;07 Unknown It but like oh I have one but I don't. No no no. And that's working out fine. Right. It is, it is. I oh no no I, I'm doing some boy girl content okay. On the side. So that's always okay. I know that's definitely like top, but there are a lot of girls who literally just start off and they just do girl girl or they do solo and that, that does amazing for them that they don't even need the boy girl.

00;09;46;09 - 00;10;02;27 Unknown I feel like I do content with my husband and that's it. And people are always telling me, oh, you're going to have to collaborate. You know, if you want to make more money, you're going to have to collab with other people. And I'm like, no, that's my boundary. Right? So this is, you know, and you guys actually are branding exactly.

00;10;02;27 - 00;10;14;18 Unknown Like as your content. One 1,000%. We're an amateur couple, right? I'm the brand. Exactly. And I was like, no, that's a boundary that I'm not going to cross. So are there any boundaries that you wouldn't cross?

00;10;14;22 - 00;10;30;25 Unknown I'm just not really into shooting with other people right now. Yeah. Like because I, because I come from such a small world, a very small pool of performers, when everything got really oversaturated with all of the content creators.

00;10;30;25 - 00;10;53;28 Unknown Yeah, it got a little scary for me. Because not everybody has, you know, the same I will say hygiene but like you know self care awareness. Yes. Self awareness. Yeah. There's just a whole different thing. So there's a trust factor there for me. Just I don't need a fresh test. I also need to know that you're like not being crazy in your personal.

00;10;53;28 - 00;11;10;03 Unknown I've been doing. But you won't know that right. So especially yeah especially now like everybody is just collaborating left and right which is totally fine. You know they do it the way that they do it. They're safe. But at the end of the day, like you said, you don't know what they're doing, right? You could be the way that I would do it.

00;11;10;05 - 00;11;31;29 Unknown Exactly. Just feel 100%. Yeah, but if there is somebody that I, you know, know from the past that I trust. Absolutely. So I have somebody now that I can shoot my boyfriend content with. Good you know. No he has no face. Yeah. Same. So it's perfect. He's a no face guy I love it. Except when. Yeah yeah yeah that's their POV is killer.

00;11;32;01 - 00;11;53;09 Unknown It's great. Yeah. Except for when we do some VR content, we have to show his face a little bit. But, like, for for free sites, I'm not going to show his face. Yeah. You know, like, no, no, it's okay. You know, we were talking before about Instagram. How has that journey been for you? Oh, that's a headache.

00;11;53;16 - 00;12;17;09 Unknown I love Instagram so much, but I just I can't survive for a long time. It's hard to keep up. The account was so great. I had a bajillion followers. Done overnight. And it's not just the followers. It's like all of those pictures. Like I didn't necessarily save all of them. Business connections. Yeah. Connections like all of these things that you're building up through this account.

00;12;17;16 - 00;12;36;04 Unknown Gone overnight. And that's happened to me four times now. So I'm on my fifth Instagram. So give us your, your, your link or your actually can our viewers can watch follow you. Yeah. It's like five, five. Spell it out because it's my fifth. Oh, so this is my last, so I should probably make a backup.

00;12;36;06 - 00;12;42;11 Unknown Yeah, yeah, I mean, I did a backup, got shadow band, and then it's just like, it's a vicious circle, right?

00;12;42;11 - 00;12;45;00 Unknown You can never win with. With Instagram, I find

00;12;45;02 - 00;12;50;07 Unknown I really do feel like it's personal. But then when I talk to other people, it's not personal. I just don't like, you

00;12;50;09 - 00;12;59;01 Unknown know, they I guess we got these bots that like, look at stuff. You have to be very careful with what you write. Yeah, right. Your captions. Last name my performer.

00;12;59;01 - 00;13;17;23 Unknown Last name on my account right now. Well, I don't think that would do anything. So that's how scared I really have my, like, Linktree, I remove that. I don't have my last name. I just as Remy. Yeah. Yeah. So scared. Yeah. No, you got to be careful with what you post and your captions. It doesn't seem to matter.

00;13;17;24 - 00;13;19;22 Unknown Yeah, yeah. And they know you.

00;13;19;25 - 00;13;38;20 Unknown They know they know you're on the go. But but you have a good following on Twitter. Right. So you you focus on that. Yeah. Yeah yeah. That's where you know, all of the social media really started for me. And branched off from there. So yeah Twitter's solid. That's that's been dead. There's like a half a million a little over half million.

00;13;38;20 - 00;13;42;22 Unknown Amazing. Do you find that lately it's been growing slowly.

00;13;42;26 - 00;13;58;19 Unknown Yeah. And it'll take kind of. Does it go up and down all the time for like a month and then you're like. And then it's been growing. Okay. Like for the last I would say 4 to 6 months it's been doing that kind of thing. And it doesn't matter if I post a lot, doesn't matter if I don't post it exactly.

00;13;58;19 - 00;14;00;24 Unknown It's all the time. Yeah.

00;14;00;24 - 00;14;18;27 Unknown So I'm not sure if it's like a bot removal thing or if I'm weeding out the people that you know, wouldn't pay for the only fans anyway, which is fine for me. Yeah, yeah, yeah, what it is. But even, like, I had this video, on TikTok do really well. And then every time I was opening my TikTok, it was like 100 followers, 100 followers, 100 followers.

00;14;18;27 - 00;14;26;02 Unknown And then I'm like, oh, I'm almost at a K. And then the next day I go on and I lost like 400. And I was like,

00;14;26;02 - 00;14;40;17 Unknown did one of your videos go viral? And people like, saw? Yeah, I guess, and they, they follow up on the follow. And then I just kept getting followers and then I don't know if everybody decided to clean their freaking, you know, TikTok followers all at once, or it could be the bot thing.

00;14;40;17 - 00;14;48;02 Unknown I guess it's very hard to win on social media. I feel like it's it's like a love hate relationship that we have with it.

00;14;48;05 - 00;15;02;29 Unknown Yeah. So hard. Because you you need it, but it doesn't want you. Don't you agree? Like, I need this for my job. It's like a toxic ex-boyfriend. You want them, but they don't want you.

00;15;03;01 - 00;15;03;17 Unknown So,

00;15;03;20 - 00;15;07;09 Unknown so tell us a little bit of, what a day in your life is, like

00;15;07;09 - 00;15;21;18 Unknown a day in my life. Well, I have two kids. Two boys. Male. So they don't males, not stay at home. You stay at home, but you work right now. This is a cool thing, though. It's a stay at home career.

00;15;21;20 - 00;15;22;17 Unknown Yeah, yeah,

00;15;22;17 - 00;15;46;25 Unknown you can do whatever you want when you want, child. My own? Yeah. There you go. But day in the life would be I cook a lot. Home with the boys all the time. Content creator. I do a lot of customs, and video calls with my fans. So usually you always have a tripod set, a set of light always going and yeah, that's pretty much at the end.

00;15;46;28 - 00;15;49;25 Unknown Would you consider yourself more introverted or more extroverted?

00;15;49;29 - 00;16;11;10 Unknown Depends on which day. Yeah. You know, ovulating. I'm not sure I really time of the month. So you have like four days out of the month where you're like, yeah, yeah, that is so funny. I mean, it's we have like our 28 day cycle. Right? And then there's days where you're just like, you know, this is sucks.

00;16;11;10 - 00;16;14;01 Unknown And then, you know, and then the next year, like, I'm bad

00;16;14;04 - 00;16;24;12 Unknown bitch. You know, nobody can judge me. So there's, there's those. So I would just say I would lean a little bit more towards introvert. Okay. Extroverted. Yeah.

00;16;24;12 - 00;16;31;24 Unknown Well, you you're very calm. You seem very calm and like, collected. So. Yeah. We're going to play a little game before we let you go.

00;16;31;26 - 00;16;47;10 Unknown It is rapid fire questions. So we have here. So you don't think too much. You just answer okay 123. No. Pressure's on. Okay. Morning or night. Person.

00;16;47;13 - 00;16;49;00 Unknown Favorite snack while filming

00;16;49;00 - 00;16;49;15 Unknown Cheez-Its.

00;16;49;18 - 00;16;58;01 Unknown So good. Extra toasty. Yes. Ever danced in public spontaneously? Yes.

00;16;58;08 - 00;17;00;04 Unknown Have you ever done a fan meetup?

00;17;00;04 - 00;17;02;11 Unknown Yes. How did that go? It was really good.

00;17;02;11 - 00;17;18;22 Unknown I got like a huge bundle of my eight by tens and then sign them all, okay. And signing. Okay. Was it at like a convention or something? Yeah, I was part of the Evian. Okay, okay. It's really cool. They brought like old DVD covers and like cool stuff. So fun.

00;17;18;24 - 00;17;20;24 Unknown Guilty pleasure music.

00;17;20;26 - 00;17;26;02 Unknown Lady Gaga, Ariana Grande, lady Gaga, I haven't heard in a while.

00;17;26;05 - 00;17;27;21 Unknown Do you enjoy surprises?

00;17;27;25 - 00;17;43;23 Unknown No. I mean, I want to know. You want to know? No, I love I love surprises, but don't tell me there's a surprise and make me wait for it. That that. Right? Exactly. Yeah. So come to me. That a surprise for you? Okay. What is it like to say it now? So, yeah.

00;17;43;26 - 00;17;48;01 Unknown And, do you believe in online love?

00;17;48;01 - 00;17;55;22 Unknown I do, yeah, I do, I think if you are going about it the right way and you're vulnerable and real about yourself, that can work.

00;17;55;22 - 00;17;57;07 Unknown have you ever had a crush on a fan?

00;17;57;12 - 00;18;07;25 Unknown No. No no not yeah. Not yet. Oh my God. Thank you Remy for joining me today. This was fun so far. Yes.

00;18;07;25 - 00;18;15;15 Unknown And again next time you're in Miami, hit me up. We're going to go have some wine and make some rails. Amazing.

00;18;15;18 - 00;18;24;02 Unknown Thank you guys for joining us. We'll see you soon.

00;18;24;04 - 00;18;29;24 Unknown Oh. Oh.