EP56 Lex Valentino | He Went Viral. Then Everything Changed

00:00:00:07 - 00:00:19:16 Unknown Welcome back to the Lexus Star Show. Today's guest. You might know him as Lex Valentino, but there is a lot more behind the man that you see online. He's a creator and entrepreneur athlete, and one of the guys who figured out how to turn attention into an actual business.

00:00:19:17 - 00:00:28:05 Unknown Please welcome Lex Valentino. Woo!

00:00:28:07 - 00:00:52:14 Unknown Did you like my intro? I loved it. Was that good? It was good. Awesome. So thank you for being here. So we got accountability on the mic. That's it. Good posture. Very important. We even have the little reminder over there. We do. So thank you for being here today. I know that you are going to be leaving to soon and that, you know, we wanted to get you before that happened.

00:00:52:14 - 00:01:10:07 Unknown So thanks for coming. And I did have to reschedule you once. I'm sorry about that. But you're here now, so thanks and let our viewers know before we get into who you are right now. Who is Lex Valentino? Tell us a little bit about who was Lex Valentino, who was or who is who was we're going to get to?

00:01:10:08 - 00:01:33:00 Unknown Who is? I think I've always been the same person. I think at core, I'm a father, I'm a martial artist, I'm a man of faith, and I'm a creator. I've always been creative. It's always been something that I've been drawn to, and that's just who I am as a person. I feel like when somebody has a skill like, let's say you do martial arts right there, automatically there's some form of creativity, right?

00:01:33:01 - 00:01:50:18 Unknown There's some people who just don't really do anything more with their life. They're going to do their 9 to 5 and they just go on life like that. But when I feel like when someone has a talent, their brain kind of functions in a different way and they're more creative than a lot of other people. What do you think?

00:01:51:00 - 00:02:26:03 Unknown I think physical creativity is a form of creativity. I think when you enter the flow state, it's a beautiful thing. Yeah. I think any athletics that you might engage in allow you to be creative and allow you to express yourself in your own way, physically. How did you how did you get into the martial arts? We're not going to touch too much on that, but like, was it something that always interests you or it was just like, I don't know, you were young, wild, you used to fight and you're like, let me just, you know, let me do let me do this.

00:02:26:03 - 00:02:48:11 Unknown Seriously. Well, I grew up wrestling, okay. And I did always like getting into fights. Okay. You know, so I can tell I can tell that might give it away, but it gave me an outlet to plug into and a place to channel that in a positive manner. Do you feel that it releases like it's a form of releasing anger?

00:02:48:11 - 00:03:13:17 Unknown Because I've always thought that I need to get into boxing just to like, get this frustration and anger that I have in me, just out. You know, maybe for some people, I think for a lot of people on the outside looking in, it seems like, let's go release some raids and get somebody or hit a bag or whatever it might be, but it's actually a place of great serenity, really, and calmness.

00:03:13:19 - 00:03:24:08 Unknown And does it clear your mind? Like do you find when you got really anything else, like it's meditative for you more than any drug on earth get out of here to do, This is interesting.

00:03:24:08 - 00:03:30:05 Unknown so we're talking about martial arts. Is that something that you still do? To this day? I don't train that much anymore.

00:03:30:05 - 00:03:46:21 Unknown I've had a bunch of injuries, and I've been so focused in on being an entrepreneur and a creator right now, but it's definitely something I still do from time to time, and it's definitely something I'll always circle back to depending on the season of my life. You need to explain to me, how does this happen to the ears?

00:03:47:00 - 00:04:04:13 Unknown Yes, it's just basically blunt trauma to the ears that largely happens from grappling. Okay, that's how you usually see jujitsu guys and wrestlers with the ears. What's it called? There's a term for that, isn't there? Flower ear cauliflower. That's I thought it was mushrooms. My goodness. Okay. Here we go I hear mushroom. You're once in a while. Somebody who doesn't know.

00:04:04:14 - 00:04:24:22 Unknown You know, that's funny because I was like, why does that happen? But, see, I don't know much about what is the cartilage inside the ear breaks and then the blood has nowhere to go. Yeah. So it just feels and hardens. What I found as a trick. I used to drain my ears when I first started. I've seen that here in Miami.

00:04:24:23 - 00:04:40:11 Unknown Yeah, everybody wanted to look pretty at that point. Then I moved to another gym where, like, if you didn't have the ears, you were like, who are you? Get out of here. You know what I mean? Then I stopped. But in order to not let them get real crazy, I would always ice them and tie a wrap around my.

00:04:40:11 - 00:04:58:17 Unknown One of my friends who's in the UFC told me this. He was like, look, just put ice on top of it and then wrap it. Really sleep like that at night. And my ears while cauliflower and while the whole list goes, you got my good side on the have healed flat really versus having like crazy knots. I've seen I've seen them get drained and I'm like, yo, that looks painful.

00:04:58:19 - 00:05:13:07 Unknown And it's like an ongoing process. You have to do it day in and day out, or you have to train with the headgear. The little. Yeah, yeah. Which nobody wants. Does it hurt. Does it hurt when it when they're inflamed with blood. It didn't bother me much versus everything else I think you go through in martial arts. Yeah.

00:05:13:08 - 00:05:29:19 Unknown But if I can give a shout out to martial arts, two things or three things that are always stop and take time out of my day to do or tell people to adopt the pit bull. Tell parents to put your kids in wrestling. I don't care. Male, female. I don't care what age, what level of athleticism put your kids in wrestling.

00:05:29:20 - 00:05:47:02 Unknown I feel like for for guys, that's obviously good, right? For for guys, I'm saying it's good, but for girls it's even better because they can protect themselves. I mean, you know, we live in a in a messed up world now a days. So it's like, you know, when you're walking out by yourself, you want to know that your, your girl can kick some ass, right?

00:05:47:03 - 00:06:06:23 Unknown Well, more than anything, I think two things really matter when you're talking about wrestling for women. I think that the number one sport for women in the world is mixed martial arts. Be my athletes don't get the acclaim they should in other sports. Yeah, nobody really cares about men don't care about any female athletes other than Serena Williams and the women in the UFC.

00:06:07:01 - 00:06:28:23 Unknown That's very true, actually. Yeah, you're right. And wrestling is the biggest base for mixed martial arts. So you give a lot of young, athletic women the opportunity to earn a to earn a living as a professional athlete versus being relegated to a regular job or a housewife or something else. Well, housewife is okay too. Well, not everybody wants to be a housewife 1,000%.

00:06:29:00 - 00:06:46:00 Unknown Yeah. Yeah, yeah. No, absolutely. In Korea, Korea has such a high rate of female athletes because there aren't a lot of options in a workplace for women. Really. So that's why you have like something like 40 or 60% of the LPGA is Korean women get out of town. And of the top ten, it's one of the two I can't.

00:06:46:06 - 00:07:02:11 Unknown Don't quote me on it. It's like either six of the top 10 or 4 of the top ten are Korean or something like that. Yeah. And the thing with with Asians is that, like when they're good at something, they're good at something, right? And they're determined and they're dedicated. So they really goal in it's the culture that they have.

00:07:02:13 - 00:07:22:15 Unknown Yes. If you're talented at golf, they're just going to put you in golf all day and you're going to go school for one day. You're like, you're a great golfer. No need for you to be great. Well we don't it's not a one size fits all solution. That's very true actually. Yeah. So that's very interesting. You're seeing it with other sports as well I think now, you know, you see a lot of Koreans in mixed martial arts and in other sports too.

00:07:22:16 - 00:07:44:06 Unknown But the Korean women dominate golf. I mean, there aren't a lot of options for you. I think as a Korean women in town, there are limited jobs. And be a housewife where you can be a professional athlete. So they're going to go with professional athlete. No shit. Awesome. So e-commerce, you've been doing that for how long? This will be going on about my seventh year okay.

00:07:44:07 - 00:08:07:14 Unknown And how did you get into that? I liked the left, so I had a business where I was advertising okay. But I was still doing a lot of running around. And I said, what could I do with the advertising skills that I have? Or I wouldn't ever have to leave my house, and I would just be able to stay with my son all day and raise my son.

00:08:07:16 - 00:08:29:18 Unknown And I came to e-commerce, and my first two attempts at e-commerce were total failures. And then my third got some motion and started doing things, and then you just kept going at it. And the pandemic was a very deciding time for that. It's the first time I ever made $100,000 in a month in e-commerce. It's also the first time I ever did OnlyFans content.

00:08:29:18 - 00:08:48:11 Unknown Yeah, but, well, we'll get to that. We'll get to that. First time I made $100,000 plus in e-commerce was during the pandemic. Everybody was locked down and I was like, whoa, I don't know, we can keep this going. This oh my God, I'll do a few more months at a time.

00:08:48:13 - 00:09:06:19 Unknown like I was saying, the pandemic was a time where for the world, as a society, it was difficult because we were trapped at home. We couldn't do much, but a lot of people took that as an opportunity. And speaking of OnlyFans, that was a time where ever went on it.

00:09:06:23 - 00:09:27:07 Unknown Well, not who ever went on it. But like if you were dedicated and said, I'm going to get into this, you did really well. Everybody was locked in in their house and they had nothing to do. Right. So everybody was watching the corn. You know, I don't think I was really dedicated to it. My pandemic experience was very interesting.

00:09:27:09 - 00:09:46:05 Unknown I got separated from my son. He was at his mother's house, and I got stuck with a woman that I met three days ago and didn't speak English and couldn't get a flight home. Okay, so I spent two months with this woman and then somehow on online or something, I met another woman and I was doing the content with her.

00:09:46:07 - 00:10:05:09 Unknown Okay, but how did that start? How did you say, hey, let's start making some content? She. I just went and met up with her and she was like, hey, this is what I'm doing, okay? And I was like, yeah, you know, it was like, and then you guys just started doing that and you kept going. You didn't need a tag or anything.

00:10:05:09 - 00:10:21:11 Unknown Back then. It was on her account. Oh, yeah. There you go. But now it's a good thing that we have the tags, right? Because. Yeah, because, you know, it could be it could be a show without the tags and like, even, like every time I post something and I forget to tag him, it's like we will remove this content.

00:10:21:11 - 00:10:42:18 Unknown And I'm like, chill, chill. It's the same guy that you've seen in all 500 videos, you know? So I feel like something that we don't talk a lot about on this show is male creators. And the reason why is, like I told you before, I haven't had that many male OnlyFans creators, right? Yeah, because you're the third one.

00:10:42:19 - 00:10:56:09 Unknown No. Fourth, we had Chino as well. Oh, okay. Just missed the podium, man. Damn. So how do you think?

00:10:56:11 - 00:11:25:12 Unknown Differentiates from a woman getting into this versus a man? How does it differentiate? I think as a woman, you have a lot easier time getting into this. I didn't intend to do adult content. I didn't go into this saying I want to be an adult content creator. While I had done adult content during the pandemic with this woman I met while being quarantined with another woman that had just met three days before, I think you meet a guy instead, you know?

00:11:25:14 - 00:11:46:04 Unknown I, I basically stopped after that. I was doing so well at e-commerce. I'm making six figures a month now. I was like, you know, it was a good time, you know? And then later on I got back into doing content. I was doing so well in e-commerce. A lot of people were telling me like, hey, get on TikTok, you can sell shit, and so on and so forth.

00:11:46:05 - 00:12:07:02 Unknown And I was like, you know what? I'm gonna get on TikTok? I can, I can do this. You know, I feel like I can do anything, you know? So I get on TikTok and I start making content with the attempt to drive traffic, to sell products and sell some of my fucking ebooks like fitness ebooks and physical products.

00:12:07:04 - 00:12:25:20 Unknown And it doesn't go anywhere. I don't sell shit, but I go really viral. First post I put up 50,000 consistently, hundreds of thousands of views, and after a while, a lot of girls wanted to be featured in my content. And a lot of those girls were only fans because I was so viral. Yeah. And that kind of brought me back around.

00:12:25:21 - 00:12:30:21 Unknown That brought you around? Yeah. And you're still doing that, right? Yes. You're still on it.

00:12:31:01 - 00:12:48:23 Unknown after after after TikTok, you know, again, I probably been on and off with it. And then later on last year and 25, I got really viral on Instagram for my spicy relationship content.

00:12:49:00 - 00:13:11:19 Unknown And that kind of put me further into that trajectory. But it is true that, in my opinion, men have to work harder to make a name for themselves in the the adult content industry. Are you going in with the intention of being an adult content creator? Like, I didn't go in with that intention. What was your intention? Just to get laid?

00:13:11:21 - 00:13:30:11 Unknown No, no, no, I didn't start my content journey. I've just been on a journey. You asked me about martial arts earlier, and for a majority of my life, I've been on a journey to be the greatest martial artist I can be. And I think I've achieved a lot in that. Since I've made amazing friends, I've been all over the world.

00:13:30:12 - 00:13:47:01 Unknown I've experiences that I wouldn't trade for anything. I've been able to pass this skill set off to my son, who's exponentially bad. I would hate to fight my son at 16. Oh my God, he would kill me. Really. We got to see that. We'll bring him on the show next time you're back. I'm gonna bring him into a gym with adult fighters.

00:13:47:01 - 00:14:06:00 Unknown And he was hands on people. That is 16 years old, and he's not a small 16 year old. Yeah, he's six foot one. Oh, he's decent size. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. You know. So. So then what are you. You're just because you're saying it wasn't. It's not your intent to become. I just went on this journey as a content creator, okay.

00:14:06:01 - 00:14:36:06 Unknown And as I said, I love to create. And it went from TikTok to relationship content on Instagram where I was doing a lot more adult content, BG and BG content only and no, no BB what's that? Boy? Boy me I'm just I'm just asking. I don't know, I don't know. No no no. Making sure I don't know. Sometimes you never know I just want to be clear I don't want to say something, you know.

00:14:36:07 - 00:14:44:14 Unknown And then, you know, I don't know. Listen, nothing against anybody else. Get in there. I know so little content. Either 1,000%. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Do you do solo content? No, I do no.

00:14:44:16 - 00:15:20:14 Unknown Do you think that putting yourself out there has been worth it? Yeah, I think it's been part of my journey as a creator. Like I said, I when I think about my adult content because I was so viral last year in 2025 for my spicy relationship content and got, you know, so much attention. Yeah, yeah. When I parted ways on that relationship, I questioned if I would continue my journey as a creator at all, okay, let alone stay an adult.

00:15:20:14 - 00:15:47:01 Unknown Content. And I took a month of celibacy even. Oh, yeah. Think about it. Cancel collabs that you know, I had agreed to. I just was like, hey, I'm not in the head space for it. And then circle back when I felt like the time was right and it made sense to me. And that's how I ended up on X first collab that I did, the girl I've shot with a few times.

00:15:47:03 - 00:16:02:18 Unknown She said to me, hey, I posted our last collab trailer on X and I got like 1.8 million views and I'm like, what did you do? Yeah, I'm like, what did you tag me? Like, what did you tag me? And she was like, oh, I didn't know you had X. I was like, well, I do. Yeah, I just don't use it.

00:16:02:18 - 00:16:27:01 Unknown She's like, well you should do adult content. So like, you know what? You're right. I'd probably post it on X like 3 or 4 times in 2025. That's it. That was it. And you're, you're you're you're just your shit is like yeah crazy. In 2026 this March I probably had like 3000 followers on there. Wow. And now I have like well over 100,000.

00:16:27:04 - 00:16:49:00 Unknown That is awesome. But thanks to her shout out Hazel. Appreciate you on that one. Let's love on that for real. She put me on like reposted me a couple of times. That's awesome. That sort of got me going and I started to be more consistent on the platform. Started to learn. You actually don't have to post as much on X as you do on other platforms.

00:16:49:05 - 00:17:12:04 Unknown Yeah. You know, X is and you can retweet to like you can just of the retweets. That's that's the biggest thing. Why do you say that. Well that's what's going to push adult content is the retweet groups okay. When people retweet you. Yeah okay. No. Because the content still has to be good. That's the thing. But you know what I feel like sometimes I have great content and I'm just like, let's go.

00:17:12:05 - 00:17:35:17 Unknown And then sometimes on X. Yeah. And then sometimes format. Is it in well format. Sorry I wasn't listening. What's the format of our content. Nine. No it's for what we do both for X. For what? For our content. The trailers. Trailers are 16 by nine. But we because we have two axes. We have one for her say for word content.

00:17:35:18 - 00:18:02:11 Unknown One for basically repurposes anything that's on Instagram social media. And then we have our her adult X account, which is just sales that we do on platforms or trailers that we post or no, that's mostly 16 by nine, but for your other one, it's all by nine by 16 and they go way more viral. It's like sometimes the safe for work stuff goes more viral than the nasty for it's the aspect ratio because everybody's on their phones.

00:18:02:13 - 00:18:16:00 Unknown Yeah. People looking on their phones. Oh, so we need to post more like that. That's why you got to do is on page and you got to do other stuff. There's so much to do. There's so much to do. I'm a short form creator, though, you know. What are you. Yeah. Oh, you don't do full length? No, of course I do.

00:18:16:01 - 00:18:38:21 Unknown Okay. But you mean we find a paywall? Okay. Yes, yes. I mean, I do my scenes that are like, you know, 30 to 40 minutes usually, and then I'll just clip from there. I'll just clip and that'll be my ex content. I'll overlay that. Danny tube sites I want to post on as well. Yeah. Maybe we should start clipping our vids, try it and clip it down to 916.

00:18:38:23 - 00:18:59:03 Unknown Yeah, we're looking on their phones. That's very true. Yeah yeah, yeah. What do you do when it comes to collaborate with other creators? Like how how do you go about that? How do you know you want to work with somebody? I look at who will be good for my content. I don't work with a lot of people. I'm pretty selective.

00:18:59:04 - 00:19:19:23 Unknown Okay. I want to make sure I can give them value, and then I'll be good for their content as well. And that my socials would be good for them. If I post any girl on my ex, she'll gain like 20 or 30,000 followers. Oh really? Wow. Yeah. That's awesome. It's crazy right? Yeah. So that's a great value to you for sure.

00:19:20:00 - 00:19:42:05 Unknown You know, and I think that my content style really makes every woman look her absolute best. What is your content style? A little glimpse without being too graphic. Just think it's just the angles. Okay, a lot of it. I think it's just a lot of things I do to highlight the other creator that I'm working with. And I think that's why I like to do mostly BG content even more.

00:19:42:06 - 00:19:58:10 Unknown As much as I like three songs and stuff even more than BG content, because it's just, I feel like I bring more out and you can focus on that one person specifically either. Okay, so you let's say you don't care much about yourself. You care more about the other person, how they look. Or I guess I'm a giver.

00:19:58:15 - 00:20:24:00 Unknown You're a giver, likes the giver. I love it. I also think about like how all of that will do, you know, growth for me as a creator, growth for them, as a creator. You know, I want any relationship I have with anybody in any capacity to be mutually beneficial. Yeah. Have you ever. Have you ever fallen for somebody that you've worked with or had like a mini crush on them?

00:20:24:01 - 00:21:01:04 Unknown I try to keep things professional. Yeah, I've heard, I've heard. Yeah, yeah. With everybody that I work with. And I'm such good friends with a lot of the girls that I work with consistently, I feel like getting romantically involved adds a level of complexity that might be a necessary and can at times be problematic. Obviously, I'm a relationship content creator, so when I have a true relationship, then I'm willing to be all in on that, and then I'm willing to be romantically involved, and then I'm willing to engage as such.

00:21:01:06 - 00:21:25:07 Unknown But I won't do any I won't do relationship content with anybody I'm actually not in a relationship with. I feel like it's untrue to myself, and I want to always be authentic. Yeah, well, that's definitely very important because nowadays we're all like a persona at the end of the day, right? Although you were a character, a character and and even though let's say you and I like, this is who we are.

00:21:25:08 - 00:21:40:03 Unknown This is who you get, right? Like I do my content with my husband. And I feel like who you see online to thank you as a relationship content creator, I want to say thank you. You know, people have told this. No, you're going to have to work with other people. You're going to end up like, no, I'm not.

00:21:40:04 - 00:21:46:12 Unknown I'm not going to do nothing. If you prove them wrong. You don't have to do shit out there and pay taxes and.

00:21:46:14 - 00:21:51:16 Unknown Pay taxes and die. Yeah, we're just paying taxes at the moment. Let's not die just yet.

00:21:51:18 - 00:22:06:14 Unknown Okay, so the whole character, that's what we were saying. The character. So I feel like when you see me online. Okay, maybe not when I'm playing stepmom. Okay. But when you see me online, that is who I am, right?

00:22:06:15 - 00:22:29:21 Unknown And I feel like nowadays everybody's just like a character and you don't. It's so hard to see who's real, you know what I mean? I can see what you're saying. And I think a lot of people misperceived my character through my previous reels and a lot of my previous work on social media, my safer work content, where people think, oh my God, this guy is fucking nuts.

00:22:30:00 - 00:22:52:08 Unknown Like, and really, I'm such a laid back individual, but that's why I'm moving to a model of streaming to really show my true character and my authentic self. And like, I don't know, you know, I don't know too many other people who have done all the things I've managed to do in one lifetime. I'm like, that's got to be pretty fucking cool to somebody.

00:22:52:09 - 00:23:09:19 Unknown Yeah, hopefully people want to watch this shit, but I feel like nowadays that's all we want to do. People, they just want to consume, right? They just want to watch. And if they like somebody, they want to see what that person is doing. Right. So a lot of people like you. So I definitely think that they're going to be freed and they're going to want to, you know, see what's what's happening.

00:23:09:20 - 00:23:33:17 Unknown Right? I think it just gives an interesting perspective like, listen, you can do anything you want in life. Yeah. And I want to dial that in and preach that to everybody. Have a positive mindset, have faith and you can do anything you want. I love no matter what you want to do. I would also say at the same time, you know, you can be great at anything, but you can't be great at everything at once.

00:23:33:17 - 00:23:53:09 Unknown So you have to pick and choose your battles. Yeah. You know, so there's a it's a balancing act overall. Yeah. What you want to do in life, what's important to you. It doesn't matter whether you want to be a master of the universe or live under a palm tree. There's no right or wrong answer. But just do what you want to do and be good.

00:23:53:13 - 00:24:10:20 Unknown You. Yeah, be your authentic self. All I want to do in life is leave the world a better place when I'm gone than when I came and do the things I want to do with the people I want to do them with, when I want to fucking do them. Exactly. Amen. You know, clock. Clock yet?

00:24:10:22 - 00:24:13:10 Unknown What would you say to cut?

00:24:13:11 - 00:24:16:19 Unknown Can you kill this slide?

00:24:16:21 - 00:24:30:19 Unknown Please? You got my gun like we're gonna be. Don't cut that. Don't cut that. That's good, that's good. He's been trying to get him for a minute. I'm just like, fuck no, I don't want to fly. It's gonna look so bad.

00:24:30:21 - 00:24:43:12 Unknown All right. So we got a fly problem. We're back. If you guys are talking, you see me shoot. No worries, dog, that would be right here. Wait wait wait wait.

00:24:43:14 - 00:24:47:01 Unknown You see him? Yeah.

00:24:47:03 - 00:25:05:14 Unknown I want to see the reels of that. You just, like. Stop. I can I can get them sometimes. It's okay. Okay. All right. It's fine. Because the lights here, that's. My brother said so I he's huge hands. And he went to put this watch on. He stretched the classroom. Oh my God. So now like if I hit my hand hard.

00:25:05:16 - 00:25:12:14 Unknown Oh, yeah. Don't hit your hand hard. No. I'm like, it's fine.

00:25:12:16 - 00:25:38:19 Unknown So do you feel like people treat you differently because you don't do it? Because you do a dog content. Because for women, obviously there's that stigma, right? Like, oh, she does corn. You know, she must be like that. Do you ever feel that from people around you? Well, my son said to me, dad, nobody ever put a picture of somebody's dad up doing porn in the locker room in high school.

00:25:38:20 - 00:26:01:16 Unknown Stop. They didn't do that to him. No, no. Okay. It's like up there with your dad. Yeah, yeah, that's something with your dad being an astronaut. Yeah, yeah. Or in the UFC or a race car driver or something. You know what I mean? Kind of get a little props for that. Yeah, I get it to double standard, of course, but, you know, but you don't feel like people have treated you differently because of what you do.

00:26:01:18 - 00:26:26:10 Unknown No, no, not at all. I mean, look at me. They're going to treat me differently. It's going to happen anyway. Yeah. Like, what is this fucking nutcase doing? You know, anyways, nowadays, everybody just judges everybody. Like you can do nothing. You can do no wrong and still get hate. That's the times that we're living, in my opinion. I mean, yeah, but I don't think about it, though.

00:26:26:11 - 00:26:44:05 Unknown You know, I don't really care what people think about me. I don't think about them at all. Yeah. I'm just living my own life. Yeah. You know, and I'm loving every moment of it. I wake up feeling so blessed every single day. And you know I'm blessed just to breathe the air. On my worst days. I'm still blessed.

00:26:44:06 - 00:27:02:20 Unknown Yeah. Amen. That's very positive mindset. Did you have to work on that, or is that something that comes naturally to you? Because I need to learn a little bit from that. It's taken some time. I think it's happened over time. I think if I were to look at myself as a young man, I saw a very angry individual.

00:27:02:22 - 00:27:25:14 Unknown And when I look at that person, I'm like, who's that? I don't even know who that is. Yeah. You know, because you said, you know, you're a man of faith, and so am I. Not a man, but a woman. A faith. I got scared, that guy. I was sweating, bro. Just in case. No, but, you know, every day I wake up and I'm grateful, right?

00:27:25:15 - 00:27:42:13 Unknown I'm going to say. I'm going to say my prayers. I'm going to, you know, thank God for everything that I have in my life throughout the day. I'll do the same before I go to bed. I do the same. But I still have that angry little boy that you used to see. I have an angry little girl in here.

00:27:42:15 - 00:28:04:07 Unknown Even though I try to think, what do you think it is that makes you so angry? I'm gonna cry. I don't know. I'm trying to figure it out. I don't know what it is that you did to. Maybe that's. Remember we got. Yeah. Adopt the pitbull. Especially single women. I'm like, why do you not adopt the pit bull?

00:28:04:08 - 00:28:24:04 Unknown Yeah. Protection. Yeah. Go ahead, walk a pit bull or two in the morning. Anywhere in any where on earth. Nobody's scared of pitbulls. Because what if they just. You know, I've met some that are great. No, I've met, but they're amazing. I just don't, you know, I just I'm, I'm in such a negative state constantly that I'm like, what if he's gonna fuck about my face off?

00:28:24:05 - 00:28:44:00 Unknown Oh, then I can't make any content. Then I can't make any money. So we're fine. It's. You know, pitbulls were banned for something like 38 or 40 years in Miami Dade. So really? Yeah. When we went back to Miami and were walking a pitbull around there, like, people were terrified. They looked like I was walking a fucking tigers.

00:28:44:02 - 00:29:08:02 Unknown I'm like, guys, it's just a dog. He's so friendly. He walks off leash to. He's a guy that was so well trained. That's awesome. But all right, so that's one. Yeah. Number two I already said put your kids in wrestling. Male or female. Yeah. Big opportunity for women in sports also. Title nine ladies free scholarship. College. Yeah. It would be great to have D1 female teams in every D1 school, but they don't.

00:29:08:02 - 00:29:26:12 Unknown But there are enough teams. You know you can get a free ride to college if you're any good. And I think the bar is not as high okay for women as it is for men. Interesting because you have obviously have a lot less competitors. You're starting to have more mixed martial arts becomes more popular, and most people understand that wrestling is the primary base for mixed martial arts.

00:29:26:12 - 00:29:47:03 Unknown And number three is no matter your age, your gender, your level of athletic ability starts you jitsu. It'll change your life. It's funny you say that. Even Teddy, Teddy, Teddy told me to start that too. Yeah, you know, he does jujitsu and see a lot of a lot of guys that are in this industry. I feel like do that.

00:29:47:04 - 00:30:03:16 Unknown Is that just me or. I see that a lot. Can I say something? Yeah. Of all the martial arts is my least favorite. Really? Why is that? God. But it does the most. Okay. You're not going to learn to be a great striker at 30, okay? You're just not. If you didn't learn as a kid. Yeah. You probably you're not going to learn to be a great wrestler at 30.

00:30:03:17 - 00:30:24:12 Unknown Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know you're not. But anybody can get great at jiu jitsu. Okay. If you ask me, do you want a tie box or do you want to just tie box all day really for hours. It's my favorite martial arts. Interesting doing it I love it. Fucking passion. But jujitsu just has. And Thai boxing, of course.

00:30:24:12 - 00:30:52:14 Unknown The same way. You know any martial art, but you jitsu is for everyone and everybody again, no matter your age, gender, or level of athletic ability can benefit from it. And just the progressive time on the mat and you getting better and you building and compounding that, not only physically but mentally, it's definitely got to do good for the the rage earlier.

00:30:52:15 - 00:31:07:17 Unknown You're saying you want to hit somebody. Maybe that's it for you. Maybe. I would love to see that. I would love to personally see that I might just started doing jiu jitsu, she says. Life changing for me. Really? Yeah, yeah, I think I'm gonna have to look into it. I'm going to bring the kids, too, if you've got wrestling.

00:31:07:18 - 00:31:29:23 Unknown Yeah, nearby for the kids. Great. If you don't, you jitsu. You know, if you want recommendations. Jiu jitsu gyms in this area. Okay. Definitely. I'm going to look into that. So I'm going to I'm going to pick your brain after on on some spots. I'll shout out the ones that I like okay. The nearby area I like notorious, notorious, notorious and and has a great kids team.

00:31:29:23 - 00:31:51:12 Unknown Those are really two gyms. Yeah. Okay. You know, for, you know, they're there for kids too. I think those are pretty nearby here. Okay, okay. Yeah, I'm going to check it out because I've been thinking about it and I've even said I want my kids in some sort of self-defense class. Right. So and for women, you know, a lot of the positions or positions, you know, a man might take on you if he was trying to have his way with you.

00:31:51:13 - 00:32:21:08 Unknown So it's good to know how to defend yourself from those positions. I, I did karate for like a year. Okay, I did, I did. Obviously there's the white belt. Right. And then I went to a tournament and I played, you know, they they put you with same gender and same age group. Right? So I fought with two girls and and I got first place and then my second tournament, which was thank you.

00:32:21:09 - 00:32:45:21 Unknown Wait, wait till you hear this one. My second tournament was, I was I was 11, I was 11 and I was an orange belt, which was the second one. And then while we're sitting down, because there wasn't many girls, I had to fight against a 13 year old boy. Boy. And that was, you know. Yeah, but come on, I was 11, he was 13.

00:32:45:21 - 00:33:03:22 Unknown And he's a boy like that might have been one coach and mom. Dad had been like, oh yeah, not today. I was like, oh, okay. Just driving home. He was he was sitting in front of me and he turns around and he's like, you're just a girl, and I'm going to knock you out. And I was like, is this a challenge?

00:33:03:22 - 00:33:23:12 Unknown And I beat him. Oh, I beat him soon. Karate and the tournaments. You got to kick him in the head twice, right? That's that's what it is. So how do you feel when you were doing all that great in this, in this era of your life? Yeah. You need this. Yeah I do, and it's great for fitness. I know what you do for your workouts, but at the moment.

00:33:23:13 - 00:33:40:01 Unknown That's why you're going to go to jujitsu and be in bad shape. All you can hit all your fitness goals too. So let's do it. Yeah, I'm gonna do that. Lexus started jujitsu. That'll be good for TV as well. Off. TV off is giving out free treatment for jiu jitsu. Really? Oh, yeah. They're sponsoring some female jiu jitsu.

00:33:40:06 - 00:34:00:03 Unknown Really? That's interesting. Okay, you put your, you know, if you're already a competitor, put your, you know, show on the on the guy and everything, you know. Yeah. TV all of that. Yeah I of TV for. Yeah jujitsu journey. Oh that would be great. And I think your production level is so high here too. Thank you, thank you.

00:34:00:04 - 00:34:19:07 Unknown Shout out to the hubs over here. Thank you for that. But I had to fight another guy after that. Okay? He was 14 and he was just going away for long. You're going to be fighting a grown man there like you beat all the teenage boys. So it's like this guy, he's he's 22. He was he was like a whole head taller than me.

00:34:19:08 - 00:34:37:00 Unknown Okay. He did intimidate me. So he kicks me in the head the first time. Then I kick him in the head and then he punched me in the eye. And then my coach was like, okay, the full contact tournament still. He goes, he goes, you can stop. And I was like, no, if I'm going to lose, like, I'm going to lose my head, you know?

00:34:37:02 - 00:34:49:19 Unknown And I lost. He kicked me in the head the second time, but I was like, okay, it is what it is. But I still beat the first guy who said, you know, I'm just a girl. So I was proud of that. But maybe I do have it in me, like I think you have that you do. It's the effort.

00:34:49:20 - 00:35:07:23 Unknown She's a Spartan, bro. Not the not. Denies the outcome that we should award our children for the effort. Yeah. I've never been outcome driven with my son. Same. Leave it all there. Yeah, leave it all on the mat. Leave it all in the ring. Give it to your 100%. And you have nothing to be ashamed of. Yeah, no matter what.

00:35:08:00 - 00:35:34:16 Unknown Hey, man, that's it for sure. Okay, now I need your professional advice. Recommendation, opinion. So I'm sure you've heard this before many times in your DMs. I want to get into the adult entertainment industry. What can I do? Please help me. So I've never heard that one before. Really? What do I tell these guys? Because I'm tired. I'm tired.

00:35:34:16 - 00:35:53:05 Unknown I don't respond, but like, don't you get that all the time? Like I need to? Probably the most common message, right? What do you do? You probably don't respond. But if you could on the Lexus Star Show, tell us, what do you respond to these people? I want to start an OnlyFans just to answer these questions, just to answer all of these questions.

00:35:53:05 - 00:36:20:03 Unknown What would I respond to those people be great female creators don't need another dick. They got dicks in their DMs like, you got that message, you know, be able to provide value in some way, shape or form. Make great content. If you're just here to fuck. Yeah. Everybody's going to see through that. Exactly. Yeah. I'm driven to make great content shit.

00:36:20:04 - 00:36:39:17 Unknown I probably like making the content sometimes more than I even like the fucking. Yeah, you know, it's work, but I love the finished product. Yeah. So be passionate about whatever you do. Yeah. If you really want to do this, I don't know, like, if, if I were like, I just want to get into adult content, I'd probably have taken a different path.

00:36:39:17 - 00:36:48:05 Unknown So maybe I'm not the best person to ask about this. I would say to just most guys learn to be a great creator.

00:36:48:07 - 00:37:09:01 Unknown Get a following, not even get a following. Work with other creators. If do what I did. Hey, I had I made viral content. Women wanted to be featured in my content. It transitioned from TikTok to Instagram and to acts. Now it's X like, yeah, you can shoot with me and I can just post you on acts. No, no fucking reels.

00:37:09:01 - 00:37:29:12 Unknown No. You're going to gain like 30,000 followers, 20,000 followers. It's like that's a value. You know, that's going to that's growth that you're sure and that's the content to watch. You know, again, I put my everything, I edit all of my own content myself. And I really feel like I make every woman look her absolute best. And I highlight all of her best features.

00:37:29:13 - 00:38:03:15 Unknown That's good. So, guys, you heard it here first. Okay. That's the answer to the DM. You keep sending everybody be great. Every girl and every you know what you say this this. So what would you say is the difference between getting views and actually making money as a male creator? As a male creator, you're going to probably make a lot more money doing solo content and, you know, doing gay stuff.

00:38:03:16 - 00:38:29:14 Unknown If you don't want to do that, you really just have to cast a wider net. Nothing against anybody who wants to do that at all. Nothing against anybody who does any of that. Everybody lives their own organic self. If you want to just do standard boy girl content and boy girl girl content, then I think you just have to cast a wider net and you have to make people care about you more.

00:38:29:15 - 00:38:43:16 Unknown Yeah. That's it. I'm going to ask you a question. This might be a little controversial. You tell me if we put this on or not. I want to hear that. Yeah, I don't know, maybe you saw it. Or. So I'm going to go in with some of this. Maybe leave this whole last part about the gay stuff out.

00:38:43:18 - 00:39:00:10 Unknown I don't know if you need that on your show or, you know, because I have I have nothing against it. I'm like respect to everybody, you know? Everybody do yourself. It's just not something that I personally do. Just like you guys don't shoot with other people. You know, people like you can make way more money. You're like, but I wouldn't.

00:39:00:10 - 00:39:20:11 Unknown The money. It's not all about the money. I wouldn't go against my authentic self. Amen. You know, and it's just not who I am as a person. It doesn't matter. You could give me any amount of money. I'm never going to sell out on being myself. On being true to me. Exactly. So, okay, but this question doesn't have to do with you.

00:39:20:11 - 00:39:51:07 Unknown But it's a question okay to say, okay. So men who do content with other men okay, okay. But say it's only content and they're not gay. Do you believe that? I think that would be like me saying I'm not straight and having sex with women, right? Yeah. I just think actions speak louder than words. Exactly. No, I know, because there's this one guy.

00:39:51:08 - 00:40:12:04 Unknown There's just a denial, bro. No, but there's this one guy who is dating a transgender who's still, you know, has the part of him or her that, you know, okay. And then but he's also doing OnlyFans and he's sleeping with other men and he's like, but I'm not gay. Like, it's just content. And I'm just like, hey brother, tell yourself whatever you want.

00:40:12:05 - 00:40:31:05 Unknown Live your own life. You know, maybe you know, whatever he knows, it goes viral. Then he just says it. You know, maybe he's just trying to get views. Yeah, dude. True. If it's you yourself and that's who you are. Man, there's nothing wrong with that. Embrace you, you know? And if you're just trying to get views, I almost feel like that's a little worse.

00:40:31:06 - 00:40:50:12 Unknown You know, like a lot of people are in on if that's really how you feel on anything or that's really your authentic self, then be your authentic self. Be genuine. If you're saying things, I probably respect it less if you're just saying things to get viewed. Yeah, I totally, but I also I also respect it as like, all right man, you know you got to pay the bills song.

00:40:50:13 - 00:41:10:02 Unknown Yeah. You know like you know you got to get those. You gotta do what you gotta you gotta get those. But especially nowadays people will only say things just to get views. People will say stuff that you're just like, what? And, you know, people just want views at the end of the day, like people who are in social media, they will say whatever.

00:41:10:03 - 00:41:39:17 Unknown You see things sometimes and you're like, there's absolutely no freaking way. You know what I mean? I don't know, you know, I don't think too much about it. Yeah, once again, I kind of keep my head down. I prefer to create rather than consume. When I consume, I like to consume with the idea in my head of creating and looking for virality and looking for trends, the last thing I want to do is be doom scrolling at two in the morning, you know?

00:41:39:18 - 00:42:01:22 Unknown So I don't see a lot. I see somebody would be like, have you seen this video? It's so viral. Yeah. And I don't be like, no, show me. And I'll be like, oh, okay, you know why? We'll see something, but I'll be I'm studying it like I've been studying IRS streaming. I've been looking at who's successful and what they've done because, you know, that's the uncharted frontier of content for adult content creators.

00:42:01:23 - 00:42:25:23 Unknown And I believe it's the next the next big thing thing. If you look at what's viral for just content creators overall, it's I'll clips, you know, it's just clip farming. Yeah. And what I've learned about streaming is it doesn't matter. You could sit there doing nothing. It's like fishing for hours and wait for something to pop off and boom, yeah, there's your moment right there.

00:42:26:04 - 00:42:46:22 Unknown And that's what goes viral. That's crazy. Yeah, but it's a lot of work. The streaming is not on there for. It's a lot of money. Yeah. Because you can't just do nothing right. You got to make it interesting for the people. It's crazy really. Run. You're running thousands and thousands of dollars worth of equipment. That's wild. And you need to have people.

00:42:46:23 - 00:43:11:18 Unknown You have to have a cameraman to. Yeah, but how do you monetize that? That's what I'm not getting. I'm new to the whole streaming thing. There's multiple ways to monetize it. You're either looking at it as a content engine where instead of making reels and again, we're talking social media, safer work. We're instead of making reels, I'm just going to IRL stream, and that's going to be my entire content engine.

00:43:11:18 - 00:43:37:19 Unknown I'm going to clip long form from that, whether that's just cutting the Earl streams down and killing the dead space or clipping, maybe, you know, ten minute clips of a specific conversation and that can go on long form platforms. And then I'm going to clip short form viral moments from that. And that's going to make me viral on Instagram, Instagram, the short form platforms, YouTube shorts, all of that.

00:43:37:20 - 00:44:05:16 Unknown So basically so you get paid per views like on the social media. It's sort of an like it circles back, right? Once you become viral on the short form platforms, people actually go and watch your stream and then on the stream like they can tip on your streams, right? Yeah. Flips backwards. Well, there I'm verified in the kick partner program because of my other socials, even though it just started.

00:44:05:16 - 00:44:24:05 Unknown So they do pay you for your streaming based on number of viewers and etc.. That's freaking awesome. Interesting. That's super interesting. That's super cool. All right, now let's talk a little bit about dating and love. So what? Love what?

00:44:24:07 - 00:44:51:22 Unknown What kind of girl do you look for for the ladies watching this who, you know, maybe think he's cute and, you know, want to want to jump go in his DMs. What do you look for in jump? What do you look for in a woman again? When I'm looking at a partner in life, I'm looking for somebody that can provide value to me and that I can provide value to them.

00:44:52:02 - 00:45:21:09 Unknown I relationship should be mutually beneficial. Probably the greatest relationship of modern history is Kim Kardashian and Kanye West. Pause. Explain. Kim Kardashian comes into that marriage worth about $60 million. Kanye's 30 million in debt. They unite. They both become billionaires. Yeah, maybe it had run its course and they go their separate ways, but they're both so much further ahead than when they were before and before they started.

00:45:21:10 - 00:45:43:16 Unknown Yeah, they could have stayed together. They could have parted ways. I'm like, that's ultimate relationship. That's true. You got to. Yeah. We've got to elevate each other. What would you do if a girl says, you got to stop doing like you're in love? Everything is good in the beginning. And then she goes, you know, what's the situation? I mean, there's a lot of other factors.

00:45:43:18 - 00:46:01:13 Unknown She doesn't want to do it with you. She doesn't want to do it with me. And she doesn't want to do it with other people either. She doesn't want to be doing it with other people. She doesn't want to be doing it with you. And she says that you got to stop. Oh, that's sort of like stopping my growth as a creator at this point in the game.

00:46:01:13 - 00:46:23:04 Unknown I feel as though that is something that continues to grow me as a creator. I continue to grow inside of the adult industry and in adult content. So that would be kind of putting the brakes on me there. Now let's flip the script a little bit. Who is this woman? Are we my French Montana and she's the princess of Dubai.

00:46:23:06 - 00:46:40:13 Unknown Fuck off! Who was that? But that didn't last very long, did it? Maybe he fucked up. Who knows, I don't know. Aren't they still together? I don't, I don't know. I think so, I really, I think it lasted like 30 days. Hey, what are we talking about here? We're just talking about, you know, another creator we're talking about.

00:46:40:14 - 00:47:07:00 Unknown We're talking about the love of your life. She the princess of Dubai as well. Well, I mean specifics now, you know, listen, I'm mission driven. The things that can move me forward. I move forward as a creator to fulfill my missions that I believe God has given me in life. And I think that the creator economy is very new and very budding.

00:47:07:04 - 00:47:38:09 Unknown And when you look at something and the only ways to monetize it are porn, gambling and drugs and scamming, it's at the very beginning. That's the internet. Yeah. That's cryptocurrency. We're still in the infantile stages of the creator economy. Yeah. And I feel like it's my mission to help people, other creators, monetize and grow accordingly. And I feel as though the creator economy is a big opportunity for the youth as well.

00:47:38:11 - 00:48:04:08 Unknown Well, I feel like for the youth right now, it is a great time for them because they could just make they could just go on TikTok, post a video, go viral, but go on that, that's the thing. How do you monetize it if you are a viral TikTok dancer, right. But you then you get the brand deals. Yeah, the views don't just doesn't pay a lot, does it?

00:48:04:08 - 00:48:21:20 Unknown Pay a lot, doesn't pay do much. You know, certain platforms, the views are worth more money. It starts to get interesting when you have brand deals or you sell, you sell your own products. Sure. You know, but then there's TikTok shop, and I think TikTok shop and UGC is, you know, is big and it is a game changer for the creator economy.

00:48:21:20 - 00:48:50:02 Unknown I think we need a peer to peer system more. So that's interconnected and that allows other creators to help creators that aren't quite at their level grow and be able to monetize off that because everything in our economy is moving peer to peer. I don't care if we're talking about Uber or Airbnb or cryptocurrency. It's peer to peer.

00:48:50:04 - 00:49:11:11 Unknown So that's what I'm looking towards. And that's where I see my journey as a creator taking is to be able to do something in that space and helping others. Yeah, yeah. Would you say is your to sell a product or to sell yourself? That's a good question. Thank you. What are we selling? What are we. No I know, just selling myself.

00:49:11:13 - 00:49:34:06 Unknown Well, when I mean selling yourself, I mean, you're you're using a personal brand, like. Like Lex Valentino on off or, you know, like either a product or you. Well, I think I think if we're talking about sell myself and we're using only organic content, it's much easier to sell a product because you have the power of paid advertising.

00:49:34:07 - 00:50:00:18 Unknown Yeah. And paid advertising just crushes anything you could do. Organic at scale. Yeah, that's definitely true. So when you have compliant products or services that you can use, paid advertising for, sky's the limit. Yeah. Okay. Let's play a little game. Sure. Ready? Red flag or green flag? Okay, so a girl makes more money than you. Green flag. Let's go.

00:50:00:19 - 00:50:20:21 Unknown Where she. It's a big princess of Dubai. Princess, if you're hearing this. If you guys. If you did break up with French Montana. Just saying. A girl has more followers than you. Green flag. Let's go. Help me run it up. I'm. You know your girlfriend does only fans. Oh, green flag, I mean, I do only fans. Who am I?

00:50:20:22 - 00:50:45:07 Unknown You know, like, yeah. Hey, now we can work together. Exactly. Relationship content. Your girlfriend has a male best friend. That's great. That's a red flag. Okay, that's a red flag for sure. Whatever sent a girl slides into your DM's first. Oh. Green flag. You like that? You like? Yeah, yeah. No. Show me. See? Show me. I like the girl that likes me.

00:50:45:08 - 00:51:02:18 Unknown Yeah. See, I did the first move on my husband. There you go. Look at us now. 12 years later, still strong. Living proof. We're a good team, baby. A girl refuses to sign a prenup. Oh, come on, that's a red flag. We're here for love. We're here for.

00:51:02:20 - 00:51:09:22 Unknown A girl. Says she doesn't care that you're an adult content creator, but secretly hates it.

00:51:10:00 - 00:51:25:12 Unknown Is that a red or green flag? Secretly hates it. How does that affect that relationship? Well, she's she's being a hater about it. She's being a hater. Like, she's like, no, I'm totally fine with it. And then she goes, tells her girlfriend on this, this guy's, you know, going and doing all these girls behind you. No, no, no, no.

00:51:25:15 - 00:51:44:04 Unknown I mean, I guess that would be a red flag, you know? I mean, like, you can't you can't shit on my name when I'm not exactly sure on my name about anything. Yeah, that's a red flag. Fuck out of you. A girl wants to start OnlyFans after dating you. It seemed like it could be a natural progression. Yeah, I don't know.

00:51:44:05 - 00:52:02:21 Unknown I don't know how that could be a red or green flag. It's like, well, she's like, oh, I see what this guy's doing. You know, a girl has 5 million followers but no money. That's a green flag for me. She just needs to learn how to monetize what she's got. And you're gonna help her? Yeah, we're a team.

00:52:02:22 - 00:52:16:19 Unknown Like I said, I have to be able to provide value to your life. To. Exactly. Yeah. You know, you have to, you know, 5 million followers. You've got more followers than me, okay? There's value for me. You don't know how to make any money off of it. I can help you, I got you. Yeah, it's got to be teamwork.

00:52:16:20 - 00:52:37:13 Unknown Absolutely. Makes a dream work, baby. Teamwork makes the dream. Can I do it all alone? What is your biggest red flag? Probably a lips tattoo on my neck. I think this is the. This is just a walking red flag. But it's got a great story. Tell us the story. Whose lips are they? So she actually used to manage my only fans account.

00:52:37:14 - 00:53:00:08 Unknown No way. Any woman that I can make over $1 million with gets a tattoo. Her lips on me. Really? Yeah. How many lips do you have on you? Just one for the moment. But who's next? Who knows? Who knows? Interesting. Yeah. I love matching tattoos. I have a bunch of matching tattoos, but the lips are reserved. I love the lips.

00:53:00:08 - 00:53:17:00 Unknown Who is it? Carmen. Karma. She's got one on her. On her booty cheeks. I find it super. There's a couple. Yo, Carmen. Karma. That one. I have to ask her. Do you know her? Yes. They are. I don't, but she said she doesn't know. Said she's going to make the introduction. Oh, good. Tell her I say. Hey, I'll ask about your behalf.

00:53:17:04 - 00:53:35:20 Unknown Yes. I don't know, I just love watching her on on TikTok. Like she. It's funny because she says this as well. She goes, like, I created TikTok so that men can follow me. And then you, you know, send them over to the page sites. She's like, but she literally has a community of girls on that. You know what a fucking cool really is?

00:53:36:00 - 00:53:59:05 Unknown Following a of women is probably worth more now. Now, where's your Fashion Nova deal? Exactly. What is that? But the thing is that even all the girls that that follow her like they love her so much that they go on her off and they buy her her content. It's like wild. It's crazy. Okay, another game. You got to this or that.

00:53:59:06 - 00:54:17:21 Unknown Let's go. Yeah. Big time. No, I don't know if she's just like a really. Every time I see her, she's got a lot of boy troubles, that's for sure. But she's entertaining to watch and to hear her stories, right? Sometimes I'm like, shit, I've been on her life for ten minutes. I just get the fuck out of here, you know, like I have to do.

00:54:17:21 - 00:54:39:06 Unknown But she's she's really entertaining. So is that what she does on her live? She talks about her dating life. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. It's a little messy, but. But it's entertaining. People are watching. I mean, people that you have on that live, they want to hear it. Yeah I know. Yeah. You know. Exactly. Maybe she should start streaming anyways this or that morning and get her on the stream at Two Cheese House when I'm going over to she mentioned her.

00:54:39:08 - 00:54:56:00 Unknown Oh, yeah. Yeah. Invite me. I'll be there. That's coming out. Come on. I'll be there. Yeah, I'll be there. I want to meet to tie. And I want to meet Carmen karma. Okay. Right. All right, all right. So this or that morning or night, you got to pick which one you want. Prefer morning or night? Morning or night for what?

00:54:56:02 - 00:55:13:03 Unknown Just. Are you a dying person or a nighttime person? I'm afraid of. I'm a nighttime person. I'm a nighttime person. But I still get up pretty early. It just requires less sleeping. Okay. What time do you wake up at today? I woke up at about eight, 830. Well, that's kind of late. Well, I'm also stay up to like three in the morning, though, so.

00:55:13:04 - 00:55:38:09 Unknown Okay, so you're you're like me. Like I'll get if I get 4 or 5 hours of sleep. It's like, okay, I'll try to sleep in 1.5 hour increments. I do the opposite really getting. Yep. Because that's a REM cycle. Yes. You know, so I want to sleep at least six hours to seven and a half. If I'm short on that, I make it up on other days because it's the cumulative number of cycles throughout the week.

00:55:38:10 - 00:56:03:23 Unknown Really. I think you should have like 35, but you can go as low as 28. And still maintain. And how do you know that you're in that cycle? Well, it's an hour and a half block. It's not exact science. Sometimes I'll wake up. So like if I nap, I'll either do 20 minutes before I'll hit a REM cycle, or I'll do an hour and a half if I wanted to go longer, or if I was really tired and I, you know, had very limited sleep.

00:56:04:01 - 00:56:24:05 Unknown Let's say I had to give a presentation or do something that I just didn't want to miss. And I pulled an all nighter. Yeah, well, then I'll sleep in larger block. Interesting. Three and three, four and a half, whatever it might be. But tally them up at the end of the week. You want to be above 28 and under, you know, 35, five with 28 being the.

00:56:24:07 - 00:56:41:11 Unknown I feel like sleep doesn't accumulate for me. Like if I if I miss a day of sleep like it's I don't, you know, catch up on it. It says polyphase sleep has become more of a big thing. It's like when you sleep in blocks throughout the day, like Renaldo was doing a lot of high level acting and doing it.

00:56:41:12 - 00:57:01:02 Unknown Yeah. To work around training schedules. So it takes me forever to fall asleep. Yeah, I have to do the opposite I. My mom. When I'm ready. Yeah, but what I do is the opposite of an alarm clock. I set a stopwatch and middle of the night. I have to use the bathroom or something. I don't put my phone near my bed.

00:57:01:03 - 00:57:19:03 Unknown I look at the phone and I'm like, only 5.5 hours really? To sleep. Oh, wow. Yeah. That's all. Went out like, no, it's half. Am I going to go ahead and get up? But if you got to drop, you got to drop, bro. If you got a drop. Are you talking about waking up to go pee in the middle of the night?

00:57:19:04 - 00:57:35:10 Unknown No, no, no, I'm just talking about waking. Oh, okay. Waking up. Okay. I've got so many things I want to do every day that you're just like, there aren't enough hours, and they have to pick so wisely, you know, because there are only so many hours in a day. And the things that once you wake up, you're like, okay, let's say you wake up early, this is how it is for me.

00:57:35:10 - 00:57:55:12 Unknown I wake up early, I'm like, I got the whole freaking day. Then it's done, then it's done because you got shit to do. You got kids, school age kids, and you got to take the kids to school. That totally changes your school. Oh, yeah, you know what I mean? I have a 2 p.m.. But, see, that's the joys of being young, you know, like he's teenager.

00:57:55:12 - 00:58:16:23 Unknown He wakes up at 2 p.m.. I used to all night running, running ads. Last month, he made $509,000 on Shopify store. I'm like, oh, man, at least he's making money. At least he's making money. All right. Instagram or X? Woof. That's a hard question. You got it. You got to be quick. You can't think yeah I'm going. Excellent.

00:58:16:23 - 00:58:49:13 Unknown I thought you were I've been hitting hitting on X right now. Money or fame? Oh, money. Duh. Easy question. Business or only fans. OnlyFans is a business. It's like kind of like a true two sided question. Like e-commerce or OnlyFans, e-commerce. Okay. Jujitsu or gym? Jujitsu. City or beach? Beach. Girlfriend or single life girlfriend? Would you rather lose your phone or lose your wallet?

00:58:49:14 - 00:58:53:17 Unknown Why don't carry a wallet. So.

00:58:53:19 - 00:59:07:12 Unknown Worst thing about being an adult creator if there is one for you in your opinion? Worst thing?

00:59:07:14 - 00:59:36:10 Unknown Wow, I'm not fast on this one. That's okay. We can skip it if you want. I think no, I mean worst worst thing about being a content creator at all is ever feeling like you have to be married to it. Married to. Married to the content. Married to creating. Because. Very true. I'm an artist. I want to create what I want to create, and I don't ever want to feel like I'm being obligated to do something that sounds like having work or going to a 9 to 5.

00:59:36:12 - 00:59:51:16 Unknown I want to do things on my own time, and I want to be successful at them accordingly. And I structure my life in a way that I can be. Yeah, that's very true. That's that's a good one. Yeah. It's always about, you know, getting that lifestyle design is more important than money or fame or any of the above.

00:59:51:17 - 01:00:05:14 Unknown Yeah, but sometimes you need the money, right? You got, you got you need the money. Once you once you've climbed that mountain and you're like, I'm good on money. Then we're like, what are we doing from here? Yeah. You know, do we need more money or we can pay the bills? Do you need more money? Do you want to do more cool shit?

01:00:05:15 - 01:00:22:06 Unknown Yeah, you know what I mean. If you want to buy another car. Yeah, right. You know, how do you want to live? What's important to you if you have. You know, one of my friends is a car that's like $2 million. That's what. Such joy to drive that. Yeah. I don't know if I get that much joy out of driving a two car.

01:00:22:07 - 01:00:41:16 Unknown I'm like, it'd be cool to drive. Yeah. Nice cars, you know, $2 million. I'm like, oh, I don't know. Yeah. If I can buy like everything I buy, I don't really think about money. I actually don't really care about money. I know it sounds crazy, but I don't care about money as long as I can put food on the table, provide for the people that depend on me.

01:00:41:17 - 01:01:04:07 Unknown Yeah. And, you know, get to do the things that I want to do, like I said, with the people I want to do them with, then that's winning that life for me. Exactly. I don't obsess over material objects or. But I feel like once you reach a level that you you're able to get the material things that you've maybe wanted at a point you're just like a it's not all it's made up to be.

01:01:04:08 - 01:01:23:06 Unknown If I really wanted a $2 million car, I could go out and get. Yeah, yeah. But I don't feel at the point that I'm at right now, I could by a $2 million car without having to think about it and making some financial adjustments around it. Yeah, if I could buy it and just not think about it, I was like buying a candy bar at the store, then I'd be like, cool.

01:01:23:07 - 01:01:38:21 Unknown Yeah, that was pretty cool. I'll go take I'll take one of those. Why not? Yeah. You know, let my friends drive it when it's sitting there collecting dust. That's wild. You know? That's crazy. Okay, one last question from, like, this little game here, which I think I already know the answer. But what is one thing you would never do for money?

01:01:38:23 - 01:02:03:18 Unknown I won't ever sacrifice my morals. I won't ever sacrifice my genuine self. I won't ever be inauthentic to who I am as a person. Amen. That's worth. I could be dead, broken, naked. I'll still be everything that I am. If you lost everything today, you lost the followers. You lost the money, and you just had $1,000 to your name.

01:02:03:18 - 01:02:28:23 Unknown What would you do? Knowing everything that you know today. If I had to rebuild it all, you'd barely need the $1,000. $1,000 isn't going to get you anywhere. Offer somebody a service, fulfill that for them and take the money. That's it. And scale from there. Yeah, it could be zero. Are you afraid of starting over? I have no fear.

01:02:29:00 - 01:02:51:02 Unknown No fear? No. God's got me. Yeah, I love that. I was supposed to start over. That would be just part of my journey, you know, part of my life. You know, there'd be a reason for it. I love that you're very, like, chill. Surprisingly very chill. And. And I like the way that you think. I love your your your positivity.

01:02:51:02 - 01:03:15:08 Unknown I like your faith. It's nice to see, because I feel like you. Like. I feel like I'm like that. But again, I got. I got something holding me back. You know, I've been wanting to do your show. I have watched it a bunch of times. I'm so happy you're here. And I love that. You know, when we started this over a year ago, we were like, you know, reaching out to people and be like, hey, you want to come?

01:03:15:10 - 01:03:39:17 Unknown And now it's fun because, you know, we've built it to what it is today and people want to come. So to me, a little round of applause for us. No, not a little big round of good. Yeah. You guys are killing it. So what is something that has made you stronger as a person, being a parent? Tell me about it.

01:03:39:20 - 01:03:58:07 Unknown Well, yeah, you asked that one quickly. That one didn't even need anything. I'm a young parent too. Yeah, yeah. You know, when you tell people, you'll understand when you're a parent, you're like, I understand you fucking. Don't you trust me? You don't. Exactly. My sister just had a baby. And all these years I was saying that too. And she tried to tell me stuff about parenting.

01:03:58:07 - 01:04:22:12 Unknown I'm like, now she's like, hey, this situation was you. And you know what? When they're like a newborn, it's actually not that bad, you know? And I've realized that with every age, I'm like, oh, the one before wasn't bad. You know, like it's bad. I feel like every age has just been beautiful. But if you asked me what the favorite ages it's like, I so enjoyed it.

01:04:22:13 - 01:04:44:07 Unknown No, it's my greatest achievement in life, 1,000%. But I'm saying, like, every age has its its pros. And then there's, there's, there's the cons, you know, you can tell me there's no cons because, you know, when you have the newborn phase, you're like, okay, you're not sleeping, you're not this, you're not that. But then they start walking and you're like, whoa, newborn phase was a breeze.

01:04:44:08 - 01:05:10:00 Unknown Where's my leash? You know, like that was super easy. And I thought it was hard, you know what I mean? And then it's oh, they're a little bit older now. And they got an attitude and it's like, well, I kind of liked the better when you didn't talk. I guess I'm lucky, you know. And I took the initiative to start my son early in athletics and to teach him, you know, I suffered a lot of, you know, real life strife growing up.

01:05:10:01 - 01:05:36:19 Unknown And I grew up really rough, and I never wanted my son to experience that. But I wanted him to learn toughness and mental fortitude and how to overcome adversity and surmount obstacles. And I did that through combat sports. So I started him really early. I actually started him gymnastics when he was two, just to work on building that athleticism.

01:05:36:20 - 01:05:56:19 Unknown And by four years old, I had moved him over to wrestling. And the wrestling gym just happened to have a tie pro that I had trained with before teaching in the back, and I put him in Muay Thai and he was just so phenomenally the guys for the best thing you could have done for him as well as a parent, right?

01:05:56:20 - 01:06:17:08 Unknown Yeah, I and that's why I say I encourage every parent to put your children in. First off, in wrestling, because wrestling is just builds toughness and fortitude. And it's also school sports. So you can get a college scholarship. Scholarship. Yeah. You know it's six you know a lot of opportunity there. And if you want to do mixed martial arts is is the greatest base.

01:06:17:10 - 01:06:43:16 Unknown So that I think really allowed me to never have to deal with. Of course, you got the one moment here and there where there's some pushback. Yeah, that's just natural. Well, yeah. I mean, you don't go through life with everything being super. You know, there has to be some obstacles. I never let them quit, though. That's important. It's never been allowed to quit that button that people have or that switch they can flip.

01:06:43:18 - 01:07:00:02 Unknown I give up, I quit. Yeah, I broke it, but that doesn't have it as he shouldn't. I don't think anyone should have that right. You can. You can not like something, but there's a way to go about it, I think. Right. You can't just wake up and say, you know what, I'm done with this. I'm not. Well, you can, you can though.

01:07:00:04 - 01:07:23:13 Unknown You can. Sometimes it no longer serves you and it no longer fits you. And you're allowed to move on in your life. Yeah. You know, you're allowed to change directions. And I think the greatest key to success at anything is your ability to adapt. There's a book called The Dip. And the dip basically says that with everything you do, there's going to be a point where you're just stuck and you're having to grind through it, and you have to ask yourself at that point, should I continue on?

01:07:23:13 - 01:07:46:23 Unknown And if I continue on, can I be the best in the world and do I want to be? Or should I just redirect my energies and do something else? And I think we have to constantly reevaluate that for ourselves and our own lives. Absolutely. But what I'm saying is, let's say your son is in a competition and he loses and he goes, well, I quit now because he lost.

01:07:47:00 - 01:08:06:12 Unknown Right. That's something that you're saying he wouldn't do. Now, I mean, you hear that from kids all the time? Exactly. Just don't let them. You just don't let them. That's the thing. But you know you will. We're back right now. You did your best. You gave 100%. You'll be back training on Monday. Exactly. I just feel like this, this generation, it's.

01:08:06:15 - 01:08:31:11 Unknown These kids are a lot softer. Soft than what? Another 35, right? Saying I'm turning 35 in 2 months. I feel like we were. We were tough kids growing up, you know, like, we we got more comfortable. You know, we have to make comfortable. Yeah. We got to make wrestling in every school. Spring boxing back as a school school to let's bring boxing back to school sport USA.

01:08:31:16 - 01:08:52:20 Unknown But you know what? They don't even have PE anymore in schools practically like there's, there's there's like no I know I've been home to my kids since the pandemic. Yeah I know, but they've changed so much. Yeah I wouldn't I wouldn't even know what to say. Yeah. I don't know what they're doing these days. I just know that the system is broken and young people need more opportunities.

01:08:52:21 - 01:09:17:13 Unknown Yes, absolutely. And they need more more direction. And they need things that they can tap into. Yeah. So tell us what is next for you. What should we expect from Lexi Valentino? Well, coming up, thank you so much for asking. Well, I have this project on the horizon with Fitbit. Who's been on your show and 2G cash? I'm taking over 2G cash space mansion in Las Vegas.

01:09:17:14 - 01:09:46:04 Unknown We're going to be streaming from there. We're going to be changing content styles and coming up with a more toes compliant content style for everybody that I hope can be replicated, and I hope people can take away from and continue to grow their own personal brands. And that's a big thing for me, is just growing my own personal brand and continuing my growth as a creator, and just following that path that I believe I'm beset upon.

01:09:46:06 - 01:09:59:05 Unknown Amen. And I hope it all works out. You know, I don't hope I know it's going to work out. And you, you know, it's going to work out because you have that mindset. Well, put the work in. Also. You got to put the work in. Yeah. All glory to God. But you also got to put the work in.

01:09:59:06 - 01:10:17:21 Unknown Absolutely. If you if you just leave it in the hands of God. Yes, you God's got your back, but you know, you gotta you gotta put the work in. God is within all of us. Amen. Amen. One last question before I let you go. Absolutely. If we sit down five years from now and we do this interview again, who do you hope?

01:10:17:22 - 01:10:43:22 Unknown What do you hope Lex Valentino is known for? I hope that five years from now, Lex Valentino has launched a platform to help facilitate content creators at earning a living and help provide jobs and empowerment to the youth. That's my goal, and that's what I'm here to do. And that's all of this is simply a build up to that.

01:10:44:00 - 01:11:00:18 Unknown I hope that I can make things better for other people because I'm good right now, like a lot of people would be in my situation and be like, yeah, this is great. Yeah. Oh my God, how did you get here? And just stop here and get complacent? No, I'm here to make a difference. Yeah, I'm here to have impact.

01:11:00:18 - 01:11:15:20 Unknown And that's what I hope to achieve more than anything else. Five years time, you're going to be here. We're going to be here. We're going to do it again. We're going to be we're going to be in a nicer place. Let's go. I can see that too. Where were you guys? What's the vision for you? What's the vision for us?

01:11:15:21 - 01:11:37:01 Unknown The the. You know, I want to have a nice big studio, okay? I want to have a nice big studio. Yeah, that's the next step. That's. That would be the next step. Really. And then, you know, just to have just to have interesting guests who want to come in. And of course you have. Absolutely. We wouldn't have wanted you or, you know, had you on the show.

01:11:37:02 - 01:12:12:06 Unknown Obviously, you know, when we we have people who want to come, but it's also it's got to fit with what we do. Right. You can't just can't just be anybody. Exactly. So, you know, for us, it's just to keep growing what we're doing. You know, our paid sites, our free sites, and really the safer work content to make that, you know, blow up a little bit more and have a bigger, a bigger, a bigger studio, a bigger office and just, you know, do you see you want to transition to broader scale social media and broader scale reach outside of adult?

01:12:12:07 - 01:12:30:14 Unknown Yeah. But see, that's why also we have had people who aren't in the adult industry come on the pod. Right. We did start off as kind of like a spicy content creator, but then we were like, you know what? We can't limit ourselves to that. We cannot continue to grow. Exactly. That's your self is is to inhibit growth.

01:12:30:15 - 01:12:55:14 Unknown Exactly. So that's why we had you know, we had comedians, we had photographers basically whoever would you say the lawyer. Alex the lawyer. Okay. Lawyer. I heard something else. The lawyer. The lawyer. Yeah. Because he's from New York, New York. So we just want to have anybody who has an interesting story and has something to say, whose good vibes.

01:12:55:15 - 01:13:15:01 Unknown You know, you don't have to just be off. Just come on here. Let's have a good talk. Respect each other because, you know, on on podcast nowadays feel like there's a bit of, you know, especially with the doll content creators. There's a lot of, you know, I wouldn't say disrespect necessarily, but you know, sometimes there's some don't always feel comfortable.

01:13:15:01 - 01:13:33:19 Unknown Sometimes when you when you watch some of the stuff that you see online. So we just want to have good people, good conversations, good vibes and keep making money. Obviously I love what you guys are doing and I see you guys growing up. Thank you. Thank you so much. So Joe Rogan level on Joe Rogan. Yeah, we'll have him on the show soon.

01:13:33:20 - 01:13:58:21 Unknown Or maybe imagine that. You crazy. That would be crazy. Lex, thank you so much for coming on the pod today. Good luck with all of your, you know, adventures coming up and let our followers know where they can find you. Y'all can follow me at I am Lex Valentino on Instagram and X and Lex Valentino on tube sites and on kick.

01:13:58:23 - 01:14:13:16 Unknown On kick. There you have it. Let's go. Thank you so much for tuning in. And we'll see you next week on the Lexus Star show by. And cut. All right. All right. That was good, bro. Thank you.